How to keep friends on mylot?

United States
August 27, 2012 3:31am CST
I have just began mylot this mOnth. I have tried to have friends but they don't stay very long. I particular like some people because they have problems or life situations I deal with and would like to keep informed on their question and answers. But every time I log on it goes backup one friend. Am I losing friends for some reason or is this a mylot glitch?
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@sishy7 (27594)
• Australia
28 Aug 12
I don't quite understand how do you mean by "every time I log on it goes backup one friend". I can see you have eleven friends here already. Or do you mean the person you want to be friends with only has one friend?
• United States
28 Aug 12
You see I have eleven friends. I dont see i have eleven friends :( Maybe that's the reason why it says one. It shows one but means eleven. I mean that the friends don't appear all the time. I wasn't sure if they deleted me or I cannot see them. I checked now and all I see is three friend requests I accepted yesterday and no one else on my list. I see it is probably a glitch if y'all see it and I don't. I have been using my iPhone too so that maybe it. I will check on my laptop later to see what it says. Have you had any glitch problems like this? I don't want to feel crazy :) Thank you for your comment. happy MyLotting!
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@sishy7 (27594)
• Australia
28 Aug 12
No, the only glitch I experienced is that once in a while the users avatars here would be gone. But I can always see all friends on 'my friends' list or profile all the time. Perhaps it does have something to do with using iPhone...
• United States
29 Aug 12
I finally got to use my laptop today and I investigated the problem. It wasn't a problem at all. The fact was that I had one pending friend request waiting. I accepted this one request and the one went away. Now I see my friends list and everyone. It was weird because I had accepted three just yesterday and the one never went away. Wellanyway it went, it went away and now I see my friends :) I am new to this so it may just be a very embarassing overlook on my account. :))) Thank you for your help :) Happy MyLotting !!
• Calgary, Alberta
27 Aug 12
dont offend them, yeah for sure some people here like debates but if you know the person is not into debates, dont debate that person. so if you have a friend here who makes a discussion that tackles an issue you dont agree with, try to be respectful as you can be, have an open mind. if you will debate them, dont attack them in a personal way. You can disagree with a person without offending them.
• Canada
27 Aug 12
People get on MyLot and then start making "friends" as fast as they can. They soon realize that having so many friends is not manageable, and then they start to purge their "friends" list. Don't take it personally, after all you don't really know these people. The best way to keep friends is to talk with them, or as the case may be on Mylot, exchange discussions with them. Realistically though you can only do this with a small number of people.
• Calgary, Alberta
27 Aug 12
there is a person here who keeps talking to me, he is not in my friend list and I hate him, nice try,My friends here, I have been talking with them for years.
• United States
28 Aug 12
I would've loved to see my friends to see them and comment. I have to visit them as I see them on my homepage and see what they have started to discuss or have commented on. So that makes me see I still have friends but don't see a list and the number stays at one. I try to comment on friends and I have also naturally discussed the same subjects as they are similar to me in discussions or life matters. I try to comment but I haven't message yet. I don't want friends to meet outside but would live to keep a repore with the online friends in case I have questions I believe thy will definitely have answers for and comment in my discussions as they have in the past. I'm always nice and thank even those I don't agree with as it exposes me to the other side of some subjects and I love to learn something new everyday. Thank y'all for your comments:)
• Indonesia
5 Sep 12
If such a situation you should be keeping the attitude if not abandoned, because we do not know what the nature of our friends in MyLot, as much as possible not to make fun of your friends or cornering.