thrusting others too easy

So since you know it that you can not be trusting everyone you meet or all your friends. try to be very strict with them. Don't let anyone play with your feelings. It is high time you should change. and I know that you know it is your mistake since you have started this discussion and poured it out here. You have to change otherwise one day you will start hating yourself and it will be late. Have a wonderful day ahead.

I feel where your coming from I used to put my trust in everyone and ended up getting taken advantage of. So I think learning from your experiences with people you learn who you can trust.

I was (am?) the same. Fact is.. sooner or later you have to trust someone, you have to give trust to be trusted but where exactly is the limit? I think you attract a certain kind of people because of your own behaviour. People know what to say to get your attention and if they catched you, they will give up their play (thinking you are too stupid to notice and you will always be there accepting everything). If you think that all people are good, the same, like to be treated the way you like to be treated, you are wrong. There is nothing wrong with meeting people, going out, telling them "personal" things but ask yourself first (before you give, pay, get active, make future plans) if this person would do exactly the same for you as you would do for that person. Only if you change, your life and relationships will change. This all besides of the fact you can't know your dad was right. After X... years showing the same behaviour as your father said he would do can also be the effect of your father's behavour.. it's not really big fun if you have in laws who show you from the very first start you can't be trust.. this will change your behaviour for sure.

I think the human race is false by nature!However any generalization is dangerous. I think most people lie´s and enacts every day of their lives. The society does not allow people to be totally honest. I guess only time can tell if we fully trust someone or not! Honestly I only trust fully in myself.

if u are realy serious with ur problem and ways i do agree that its different and disturbing so try to change ur behaviour.

The issue of trusting too easily can stem from lack of patience. If you trust someone too easily, then you haven't taken the time to actually know them. While it would be great if we could quickly point out people who are distrustful, that reality does not exist. It's true some people can already can point out people you shouldn't trust; however, those people most likely know from experience. Your parents' advice are probably based on their experiences. When trying to learn who to trust, you need to be vigilant about how they act. Before you try to develop a closer relationship with a person, you really need to take time to know them; once you have a better idea of that person, then you can decide whether or not you want to develop a closer relationship with them. When in doubt, talk to your parents; they truly care about you and don't want to see you getting hurt.