What to do if your crush admit he falls for you?

@Daisy_22 (1230)
Philippines
August 28, 2012 4:25pm CST
He was my crush when I was in grade six.Until we went to different schools especially when we are in college.Out of my expectation our paths will cross again.Now i believe the world is really so small.Last night he send me a message until we reminished our past life including the time when I had a crush on him.It's quite embarassing but he told me not to do so for he also likes me.He hide his feelings for he thought I won't believe him.Now I'm excited on what's going to happen.Future is uncertain but I only feel one thing after he's come back.I feel happy and inlove again.However I'm still in confusion to believe or not. What should the best thing to know if it's true?I'm not confident now to believe my feelings for it might hurt us sometimes.I'm happy to hear your advices....Good morning and stay inlove while mylotting!
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24 responses
• Mexico
1 Sep 12
Hi Daisy: I think this could be a little bit frustrating but at the same time we could not keep thinking about the things that never were. We have the present so it's a nice story but that's all. I would try to spend more time more time with this person now that I now her feelings and let things happen if they are going to happen. Maybe you fall in love again. ALVARO
• United Arab Emirates
29 Aug 12
I think if he decides to come back to you, i think you should be happy because you already knows each others behavior, you will know how to manage each other very well because you all learn lesson at the time that you separated.so kindle accept him back.
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Hi daisy, congratulations, you got your crush!!! Feeling is mutual... Then just be natural as you say your feelings share and let him share also his feelings, if you both reminisce the past and the activities you and he secretly treasures meaning you are meant for each other... Thats a wonderful love story that was kept and wait for. Right time to grow and blossom... what I can advice is enjoy and be,thankful that at long last your crush had a crush on you too...it never happened to me lol....
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
That sounds exciting! what will happen next, perhaps you have in your mind what if I told him before or maybe you said, why you just tell me now ;)? anyway what ever it is it's indeed a happy feeling to know that the person we like, likes us as well. Don't be afraid whether he's telling the truth or not as long as you are true to yourself then that's more important. And if your afraid to be hurt it means that you're afraid to feel in love and grow :), sometimes even two people do love each other so much we can't avoid pain.
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
That's sweet, two people who fell in love with each other finally confess to one another. But that's a long time you guys spent apart, just make sure that he's worth while to be with because people change and I think that sixth grade is a little too early for us to be sure that were really in love. Take it slow with him and if he sticks around then you'll know it's real cause although love can happen in an instant, if you have to rush into it then it's not real. Does that make sense?
@laydee (12815)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
I think it's important to stay grounded and remember that this was over several years ago and you're not actually face-to-face while talking so perhaps it's just flirting but not the same this time around. I don't mean to pull you down, but it's safer if you don't act like a sixth grader with this guy because guys wouldn't feel "challenged" if there are no more mysteries. How to act, I think it pays to just control feelings. Wait till he's the one who's going to invite you out and do what the guys should do. Don't show too much emotion because you would want him to wonder too if you still feel the same. Just take it easy, relax and enjoy being in cloud 9. Just don't wear your heart on your sleeves. Don't expect too much, that was several years ago, perhaps he doesn't look the same way face-to-face. hehe.. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
@mikej143 (310)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Hi It could be most interesting to have either in that stage but nothing else its up to yourselves were it could be the priority the emotions of love? or either the fear to end? but it when nothing's happened its also to your decisions take time and think of it and if someone's admit it to you say it thank you" in respect or appreciation for the person and if you like it take time with Him and spend time together to cherish the moment.
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
If I like him. And he likes me too. I'd go out on a date with him of course and try to get to know him better. Until we both decided that it's time to start a relationship.
29 Aug 12
So let me get this straight - You liked a guy a long time ago, and you are now finding out that he not only liked you then but he still likes you. You are not in a relationship but you have not seen this guy for a while. If that is all correct then my advise would be to catch up with this guy. It could be that he is the love of your life. Then again people change a lot over time and you might find that he is no longer the sort of guy that you really want to be with. I met a girl that I had a crush on in high school at our 10 year reunion, and I was so thankful that I never ended up with her because we had both changed so much and she was no longer the girl that I remembered her to be. But you won't know until you find out. The important thing is not to let the romance of the situation get in the way of making a good decision. Go in with your eyes open ready for what you might find. Nothing ventured nothing gained, but be ready to walk away if he is not the guy for you!
@blinjk (613)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Hi Daisy, believe it or not I have been in that situation.I am first year high school when a grade 6 boy is having a crush on me. He is my crush,too but I just like to be his friend. I am one year older than him and I do not like to have boyfriend younger than me.We have separated also because my family moved into another city.I thought we will not see each other again. I have graduated college and I was searching in friendster(social network before but turned to a gaming site) I saw his profile. I added him and when he saw that I was adding him. He sent me a private message,he gave me his mobile number. I have sent him a message and then he still likes me even if I have a son.I admitted that I like him,too.Then we have been seeing each other before and now we are on and we are now 3 years in our relationship.I hope your love story would end like we do.
@ligwan (44)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Future is uncertain indeed! Haha! You should believe in your instinct and try to leave a room for yourself. Like, you know, if he is just after something. Its a great feeling to be in loved. Keep it up! Hehe
• India
29 Aug 12
you are lucky enough to get such a person . be happy tease him for some time and then go into his life. this is something that wont happen with everyone. this is some what like some miracle. there should be some luck in u. talk to him know about each other and if everything is fine marry him ull be happy for the rest of your life
@Shavkat (50192)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
I experienced that, but in the other way around. My former GF had a crush on me, but then it didn't work out. Since the differences arise along the relationship we had.
29 Aug 12
A dream comes :) so wonderful that both of you hide your feelings from each other, oh so cute. well you can talk to him, have time to each other and feel free to ask questions. Good luck and God bless.
• United States
29 Aug 12
I think it is wonderful. He is saying he has a crush on you too! Go for it! See if you two can make it more serious. It sounds like what you feel is finally mutual and that is mostly what you need. So go out on a date and see what happens. Good Luck.
@Aikhen (1)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
i will rush into her and i will tell all my feelings for her and i will never lose that moment because not everybody can have that.Its like i won a lottery and that will be the perfect timing to show my love to her
@Jshean20 (14374)
• Canada
29 Aug 12
This would be a very special love story if it all worked out for you two in the end. I wouldn't really rush anything for now, I would just spend as much time in eachothers company and see where it leads you.
• China
29 Aug 12
That's a really a good news and i can imagine you must be so happy that you can't believe it. Sometimes this world is so unbelievable but that's true. So i think you should enjoy this moment. But first it's transparent for you to make your feelings calm down. You need to clear your relationshipn with him, because after several years, although you two still love each other but there're many thing changed. Whatever, the most important thing in my view is to have a face to face talk with him, after a heartful conversation, you will get a better understanding of each other's thoughts. And you can speak out your mind,then the answer will show by itself.
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
29 Aug 12
I would be happy if I had a crush that also feel the same about me . I am happy for you and I would not let any more moment pass along .
@toniganzon (44922)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
The first thing you have to do is to stop doubting whether it's true or not. You are feeling in love again and happy about that feeling. He already admitted that he likes you, so just wait till he shows you that not only in words but also in actions. You don't need proof for that and doubting will only ruin what you're feeling right now. Again take the risk of being loved and getting hurt. Getting hurt is part of being loved anyway! So enjoy the moment and face the music. Have a great day!