Staying In Love After Breaking Up

Hi friend, welcome to mylot. there is nothing wrong in falling in love again after the break up, but we must be very careful and select a proper person, otherwise we are in need to face another break up

everyone have reason why they make new love story after break up there are people feel alone and they find the right one after breaking up there are people want to be alone after breaking up so it depends on you sista

Dealing with issues of love, very confusing. Sometimes, love is too easy to come, but it is also too easy to go. If you, want a love that can make you happy. You have to be careful and really know, who will love you. Do not be so easy to fall in love. There are a lot of fake love.

Your friends are indeed right. Stay with their advice. After a break-up one has to give it air, meaning you should concentrate on other things and not search for love after such a short period of time. Besides, real love will find you. Are you insecure that you need a man to be with you all the time? Think about it. You create your own consequences. I don't know how old you are but you seem very young still. Don't look for love. Be happy and confident and love will find you.

Actually, I am also like you but my reason is that I am afraid to be alone or maybe just like your reason.You should not wait for years and as long as you are happy with what you do,then just do it but you should know or feel if that person really likes you.Just be careful when entering into a relationship because that matters a lot.

I never had a boyfriend. But I think, you should take chances. Of course, you need to learn from your mistakes. It doesn't have to be years. Why not a few months? Who knows, maybe this person that you met is the right one for you and just let it slip because you're afraid of making the same mistakes again.

I don't think it should be a rule on how long you should or shouldn't wait before moving on and giving someone else a chance at love. I wouldn't rush it by any means, I would move at a pace that you feel comfortable but chances are if you are questioning it you might not be ready. I've been in a relationship for almost 8 years now and I cannot imagine moving on with someone else, I know it would take me a long time but everyone is different.

If you think that you're already prepared for a new relationship, then why not? Why should you wait for a year? Time is too short to waste. If you want to make your new relationship work, then you have to take care of it. I hope you commit the same mistakes again. It really feels great to love and to be loved. Happy mylotting.

I wonder if you honestly fall in love.. or you are just afraid to be left over or... just like the feeling to fall in love (which means in the last case you actually don't love the person but more the feeling/fact to be in love). To my opinion you have to be ready to fall in love again. Ready means to me getting over your ex and those experiences, be ready to give all your attention to someone new. Some people need years for that, some will never get over it, some do it fast and get over it. Fact is: if love is there and you feel you are ready, there is no reason not to go for it. In short: you are the only one who knows what is good for you. BTW there is nothing wrong with making "mistakes", no matter if you wait one week or 10 years.. we all make them.

Hi friend, welcome to mylot. As you mentioned you are already failed in love, then why are you interested in failing in love again? Just concentrate in other things and forget about your love.

Don't rush things, suddenly you don't know it was just only a rebound, or you feel you want to fall in love again because that person who doesn't love you back, you just want to show him that "I'm okay and I'm ready to live without you" then If you fail with the new guy it will be totally mess up

as they say you have to kiss many frogs before you meet your prince maybe through those relationships is how you will meet that number one but it always good to take a break because the moment you go back in the game you will feel right. DON'T FORGET THAT IF GOD WANTS SOMETHING TO BE YOUR IT WILL BE NO MATTER WHAT SO DON'T RUSH

Yes, I feel in love again after break up, but sometimes still we must have more time to be in love again. .Time is important, maybe not years but we must have a time first to yourself and to have a brake for the meantime.. ,Love always can wait :)

So meaning you loved all of your girlfriends? I don't know but I think I'll stick to what I believe into. I think falling in love with a person is not that easy specially if you just had a break up. If you fell in love again just right after a broken relationship, meaning, you can just let go of the person you love that easy, right? I think your friends are right. You must rest for awhile. And how did you know that you just fell inlove again after break up?