I'm so happy I'm going to work now
By 911Ricki
@911Ricki (13588)
Canada
September 11, 2012 12:49pm CST
When I was on midnights, I slept most of the time. I worked midnights, then days so afternoons I slept. I wasnt witht he world basically, I could care a less I was so tired.
Now being off the midnights, I notice a lot more. Well Im just relaxing with Marco before going to work for 350pm.
My parents are upstairs screaming at each other. Little skward and Im hungry but I know for a fact if I walk up there they will rip my face off just for walk in the kitchen, or *listening in* when I honestly dont know what they are saying but screaming at each other.
My sister is packing most of her things right now, and I believe moving in with her boyfriends parents (not that she doesnt live there most of the time). This morning when they were at work, I packed up most of my things and piled it in my car. I have a few people who will take me for a little bit, or let me stay when Im not working.
When Im done work, Im going to a coworkers house, and staying until late or early mornings then coming home when everyones in bed so I dont have to talk to them.
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9 responses
@much2say (54118)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Sep 12
It's sad you have to feel you have to get away from your own home . . . home is where you want to feel safe and secure and relaxed - not stressed out and frustrated all the time!! So I truly hope you can find your own place soon to make it your peaceful spot - that's the way it should be. Until then, hope you enjoy some moments of peace at the other places you can stay!!
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
12 Sep 12
i didn't understand what was the exact problem, is it with your family? its good that you enjoy your work, and continue that , which is important for a life like yours, no peace at home, i am sorry if i didn't understand your point.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
the sooner you get out of their permanently the better for you.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
11 Sep 12
This is really sad. A family should not be so crazy. I don't blame you and your sister moving out. I hope it all goes well.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
Any little thing she's bickering about, even my own father is clearly annoyed. He is avoiding her with us, we were all hiding in the garage tonight to get away from her. She stood there screaming at him, because he was fixing HER car, and missed dinner. He didnt know when she was making it, or when it was ready, and she didnt say anything. But he is getting just like her, and I think it;s from being around her. They both are very negative, and always going on and on about this or that. I guess when I was working midnights I never saw or talked to anyone so I didn;t notice how they were. I applied to a few midnight positions and will take them if tey come up. I just did a budget with the mobile home, if I work 3 jobs I am fine but I estimated a lot of the things to be over for example phone I said $100 a month whereas its $70 just in case same with hydro, car expenses, etc.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
11 Sep 12
Wow did something happened that I missed? It sounds like you and yours sister have had to move out of there and quickly at that. I'm so sorry this has happened, some parents just shouldn't be parents. They are screaming at each other now? Over this situation? It seems you might be better off but I wish you had some place stable and for sure to stay at without having to stay a little bit here and there. I am sending prayers and good wishes that something good comes out of this somehow.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
They are flipping out about everything and anything now. I mean I just got screamed at for plugging in my laptop cord that Marco chewed one tiny piece. They are going at each other for the most stupid reasons. I've been ignoring them completely, I want nothing to do with them. I wont even go in the same room as them, because they will have some negative remark, or outright scream at you.
@inmyopinion (213)
•
12 Sep 12
Wow, sounds like your family is pretty hectic. Family is often one of the hardest places and people to get along with for some reason and yet they are the ones that we most wish we could get along with!! All I can suggest is that you pray and ask God to intervene in your family and bring peace and harmony to the relationships that are strained. It sounds like you could use some divine intervention!!
@GardenGerty (158324)
• United States
11 Sep 12
Sounds pretty awkward to me. It is good you have places to go. What about all the animals? You just need a real place to move to so you can get them away from the screaming as well.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
11 Sep 12
Well it seems like it's come down to you just needing to get out of there and fast. I've gone through that several times myself. I hope you can find a permanent place to stay within your price range and soon. It's horrible that all the stress in the house is falling back on you because of them (your parents) not just cutting your brother off and saying he needs to get a job or find a way to help pay for his own schooling.
@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
12 Sep 12
I am sorry that your parents are arguing all the time and it is causing you stress. I know in one of your other discussons you had mentioned that there was a trailer you were looking at that did not cost much, is that still an option for you? You should not have to be stressd in your own home. I know I had recently moved out of my parents home and am renting a trailer because the constant arguing and them asking for money was becoming such a burden to Randy and I. My brother has moved in with us because my parents were treating him more like a slave than a son. My brother has a disability and finding work is hard for him. He goes on interviews and never gets hired. He does try, but my parents do not see it. My parents have large debts and expected us to pay off their bills. I hope you can get your own place soon and that parents will realize that your brother is a burden and needs to help.
