date someone not to feel alone

I think that this is a very bad thing because it stops two people from really finding true love. What if a person's soulmate is out there, but they are with someone that they don't really love? Terrible!!

I know some cases like that. My friend is one example. She just likes the guy because he is handsome and sweet and brainy. But actually, she don't love him but just 'like' the the guy. So, until now, she has no permanent and serious relationship. All were flings and for fun. I always ask her to find a guy that will be with her till the end. But she insist to continue with her fling thing.

I'm ashamed to admit it a little bit but I did that. he was a nice person and I tought that I would get to love him in time. but I didn't. things were ok between us as long as he wouldn't try to kiss me. when we get to kissing it would simply make me want to vomit....I"m sorry but that was the truth. I have no idea why.we broke up in the end. he deserved to have a woman that would love him for real

hi sweet, I rather be alone than to pretend that I like or love someone I don't want to be unfair to anyone besides true happiness can find with someone you really love happy mylotting

There is nothing wrong with being with a sweet guy. There are many different kinds of reasons to be with someone and many different kinds of love. If you really appreciate a sweet guy (I do) you will have feelings for him as well and also this is love. Falling in love is something completely different as loving someone. Falling in love will pass.. if there is no love left over (this you will do after you had good but esp. survived bad times together) you will separte. I think you don't know the difference between falling in love and loving someone. I also think a sweet guy is worth way more (about 200 times) as just a guy you fall (blindly) in love with.

People cannot live alone, they need some sorts of company. Even if for the sake of company you need to live with someone, there must be something between you and that person that will have made you stay together. However, without love it is impossible to live with someone forever. But if living with someone can help get rid of loneliness it is good then even if that means no love involved in the relationship.

Well, it's the first step to have a relationship, especially if you are looking for a partner in life. Maybe there are some guys who dates people because they need company, but if one wants a company for a lifetime he/she had to know more about the other person first before jumping to a commitment because their relationship would suffer if they don's acquaint themselves first.

I can in simple words such things is not dating but it is sort of time pass for them and have some fun with the guys.

I think that it could be dangerous going it on a date with a person whom you really do not have special feelings for. Are you aware of date rapes? That could happen. if you do not want to be alone,then call your friends for company instead of going to a date.

I have never been with a man that i don't love. I don't talk to men that i don't like either. I don't go for companionship. I am the kind of person who would only start a relationship with someone because i have feelings for him. I don't see it a bad thing though when people are in a relationship even though they are not in love. They're just people who can't really be in a commitment.

yes there are people like that and I think it is bad in the sense that the guy might take it seriously and when time comes he might get hurt from this. I would not want to be in a relationship like this as well. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

That is so wrong, especially if the guy happens to have genuine feelings to the girl. The least she can do is be honest with him, tell him upfront that she enjoys his company and doesn;t wanna be alone but she's off relationships for now. That should be enough and who knows, they might end up as real good friends if not more. Now if the guy won't agree to just being friends, then I guess she's just have to let him go and move on. I'm sure that if another guy would do that to her she wouldn't like it either.

I believe there is nothing like that you will see someone and fall in love.this can only happen in movies.so untill you spend some time with someone how can you be sure that you are in love.if you like someone it is more likely that you can decide to spend your whole life with that one.i donot find anything wrong to be with a sweet guy.i donot trust in blind love.

unfortunately a lot are doing these mostly those who are already in 30's. This is because they don't to live alone and they want to have their own family. They usually say that they will look for someone with the right qualities and they will learn to love them because of those qualities. Sad to say it really happens...

well of course it is not a good thing. I do not think such relationships do not last and can only go for about a time or so and then the woman or the guy would eventually realize that they could not work things out. I always believe that love should be the basis of one being with another person.

I think it's a bad thing because she is just leading him on and he thinks she probably loves him and in the end she is just going to rip his heart apart. I hate when people use others because they don't like being alone. I been single almost my whole life I've only been in 3 relationships and never ever thought of using a guy. They mostly just used me but I have finally learned my lesson. Now I'm with a great guy whom I love dearly we been together a year and a half now and wouldn't trade him for anyone else. I hope this girl learns her lesson.

I will never get into a relation just because I am alone. It is not my style. I have been in a relation and have learned many things. Love is painful so get into it after thinking for 100 times. Now I am single and I am happy like that. I have many sweet guys around me but I have decided I will never get seriously involved with them. They are all my good friends and I will let it be that way. Also, I have heard somewhere that making your best friend your boy friend is the worst mistake you can ever do. That way you lose a good friend and also do not get a complete lover. So all guys out there...I am single and NOT ready to mingle very soon. I am focusing on other things in my life at the moment.

There are many such links. people do not want to be alone because they are afraid of loneliness not grow old alone and more nonsense. It is not at all good because sometimes you have very strong feelings and the other person in such a situation and context to not feel the feelings. good day!

Hi friend, i am not interested in this kind of dating activities without love, we don't have the ability to enjoy our time with the person whoever we don't love, if we are feeling loneliness and wish to come our from it, then we can call our friends and have fun with them, dating is not a solution for our loneliness, also it is hard to date without love