anniversary

Philippines
September 29, 2012 12:14pm CST
How would you react if your partner forgot your special day-your anniversary? And then after you remind him of it,he'll try to explain that he's only busy,but it does'nt mean that he did'nt love you at all...How does it feel???
7 responses
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
Men always find away to make excuses but that's true they do love us only they are not particular in remembering special dates. Only us girls who are always keep celebrating anniversaries. But that's all fine more important thing is your always keep in touch even your far away to each other. You can both feel the love to each other any time of the day even it is not your anniversary.
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
True,we have to accept the fact and face the reality...Men are men hmmmm,,,that's why we are there to remind them always.
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
hi aliah, Well it's really hurting but maybe it depends on situation not all men actually can remember anniversary, birthdays or other important events. If he will make it up with me then that will be fine but if he doesn't it yearly I think that will give him a big trouble . happy mylotting
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
Hi Bhaby, actually we've moved on and finally settled this "small things",,maybe got carried away about the distance we have now though its only my vacation...hopefully it wont happen again :(
@STOUTjodee (3456)
• United States
29 Sep 12
Sorry to hear this!! I'm fortunate that my husband remembers important dates like our anniversary and my birthday. This is our second marriage and we got remarried on the day we were married on the first time. So he even remembered after 15 years of being apart on our first time we were married. How can one be too busy to forget the day you were married, he was there too!!
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
Wow that was so romantic...actually its our 26th years or togetherness,which we celebrated seperately from our wedding anniversary, and i really love this date/month because i considered it really special...unfortunately at this moment we are not together as for the mean time and taking good care of my kids while on vacation and maybe i got carried away by my emotions too..but somehow i understand his situation.
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
My husband often forget our monthsary but never had he miss our anniversary. But whenever he does forget our month anniversary, of course I feel bad. How much more if it was our anniversary that he would miss? But according to studies, men are really not good with dates and all that stuff :| Women are :)
15 Oct 12
It's important for me those day of course. Anniversary and monthsary at midnight I will greet her. If she forget about this day then I feel bad. but of course not that bad as long as long as i know she loves me, that's perfect. it does not mean that is she forget to greet she don't love me anymore, I just understand maybe things in her mind.. Happy mylotting!
@WakeUpKitty (8707)
• Netherlands
29 Sep 12
Many people forget, esp men you have to help to remember. My husband will forget every birthday and anniversary since it's no habbit in his culture to celebrate it. How it feels depends on my mood but also on how important it might be to me. But it's also easy since I don't need to congratulate him either or do something special to him. This besides of the fact I never celebrate my birthday and I think it's useless only to remind or celebrate such days if someone can't appreciate you and show he does whole year through.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
29 Sep 12
Honestly, I don't have anyone celebrate my birthday for decade already. I only remember my own birthday, but I don't really care if someone brought me a cake, or give a gift to say "Happy Birthday" or not. The only person that still remember my birthday is the place I work, they will send me a gift card every year before my birthday though. So, for me, whether my partner remember the anniversary or not, or whatever excuse he/she pull up with, not such a big deal to me. Maybe that is how I am.