Temper Control.

OK.. now do not worry... I suppose this "he" is your boyfriend... just try to think how much he loves you and how much he has done for you... how he has changed for the sake of you... then you won't be able to get angry about him... And do not get angry.. just try to be clever and use tricks to get done what you really want.. I mean don't say "Please accompany me" like things... always say.. "you are the best boyfriend, you always accompany me whenever I need you"... and just give him a hint when you need his company... Use reverse psychology.. it might work for you... Don't get angry... I hope you'll have a great time ahead... I love to see happy couples... Good luck !

Erynn,being a high temper person is not healthy for you as well as your husband.You must know how to calm yourself so that your love one would not felt insecure towards your ways handling your relationship.I can recommend you eating something that would always make you calm,then eat some fresh banana after each meals,or other fruits like apple and papaya.These fruits have that potassium that lowers your risk of stroke due to it lowers your blood pressure,with the vitamin C,B6,Manganese,and fibers.I must also know how to manage your temper,not to get angry right away,that is why he was making you more mad,because he was already not likening your attitudes.You must take note you are living together to become happy,so you have to adjust so that your relationship would be working smoothly.Okay,have some bananas in your table so that both of you would be happy once more.

its really hard to control our temper once other people ruin our mood from good the bad trip,sometimes to avoid telling something harmful words or striking words to other people i just leave first and be alone so that my feeling will calm down with silent.

It's not your temper that is bothering you but the fact your partner is not able to make decisions and doesn't care about you, your wishes to (at least he isn't according to you). I think he feels forced by you into things he doesn't like. He can't stand that and that is why he is looking for escaping ways out. If you can't live with his behaviour (and this won't change) you better end this relationship. You can feel miserable alone, have a bad mood or temper because you feel lonesome. You don't need a guy for that. You will not win this battle, he won't change that is for sure.

It is natural to become angry, but it is more important to learn to control our anger or temper. It is difficult for someone though who have got a high temper. However, doing light exercises regularly, meditating, eating healthy food can help get over temper. Above all the desire to get rid of temper will surely help you.

Hello Erynn, I think it is not healthy for you not to control your temper as always as you could.There is a tendency also that he will get irritated with that of your attitude and definitely it will end up into your separation or break up. Just be relax and do not engage yourself in too much temperament. It is not really good anyway for both of you. Just try to stay calm as you can.

Maybe you both should calm down, and take things easily. Do something fun you both want to do. Stress should not be present in a couple. It should be instead an escape from stress.

Hi, Times like I can't take it and feel like blowing up, I have to take a deep breath and count from one to nth, venting my emotion slowly so that nobody would get destroyed in the way. Suppressing it is not good either so that is one way of making it less destructive, internally and externally. If the condition still exists, I have to go out,away from the source of it all, going somewhere quiet and cool to help me weather out the storm.