Having A hard time to start a New relationship.

October 6, 2012 3:23am CST
Never been fully recovered from 5 years relationship break up... I dont want to stay longer in this stand, I want to move on and be better. But the problem is everytime I attempt to start a new one i am thinking of the worst. Never really have a trust anymore, so much promises and hope means lot disapointment. I think I should deal with my trust issue first because i knew it wont bring good to my next relationship.
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@GemmaR (8517)
6 Oct 12
It is very hard to recover from a break up, but five years is a very long time. It is understandable if people have treated you badly in the past that you might feel as though you can no longer trust them, but the thing that you should remember is that most people are nice to their partners, and you now deserve to find somebody who can be nice to you. You should not think about dating as such, but just go out and try to meet new people and see if there is anybody who you get along with well. If there is then you might find that there is a good future for the two of you.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
I know how you feel and it is really hard to commit to another relationship without thinking of the bad things that might happen. But you need to learn to completely let go. What if the perfect person for you is just waiting for you to notice him? Give yourself the chance to be happy again. Life is a gamble itself. Not unless you take the chance, you will not be able to know what is really waiting for you. Who knows, maybe the next time you fall, if will be the perfect one for you.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Oct 12
hi sherlysinguran without trust any relationship will end sooner or later.love,respect,trust and faithfulness are the four corners a happy relationship or marriage. yes work on your trust issue then go fowared ona great relationship.
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
hi sherly, It' not easy to trust again but don't let the past haunt you Not all the fingers are the same as they say maybe the next relationship is much better keep posting happy mylotting
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
Hi! It must be really hard for you. But I guess you should really move on and start a new love story with someone who really deserve your love. I really hope that you will find that person! :)