A girl's problem
By HuaZhao
@HuaZhao (457)
China
October 6, 2012 10:45am CST
Just now,I received a call from my best female friend. She graduated from university two years ago. I must admit that she was excellent when she. was in university and also she has gotten her master degree. But She has many troubles in her life and work.She don't want to fall love with anybody and couldn't tolerate her common daily work. She is going to run her own business.But I always think she is sochildish. Hi, can you find that ,nowadays, there are so many young guys who are not realistic.
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8 responses
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
7 Oct 12
Hi HuaZhao! What made you think that your friend isn't realistic and childish? Going into a business could be the most profitable way of earning. As a friend perhaps you could support her in her activities particularly with her plan in entering into a business.
@HuaZhao (457)
• China
7 Oct 12
Hi, Thank you for your attention. I am trying to help her. I lent her money. But I really don't want to be watching her going to a totally wrong direction. I think we are all common people. She don't like her routine. She thinks they are trivials. But even you have your own business, you have to do tiny thing. You even have to go to pay for rent, electricy and running water by your self. At least, your boss will manage this kind of things for you.You can focus on the things you can do and you like to do. Anyway, I think the chance to find a proper job is more than to start a business. succesfuly.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
6 Oct 12
Is this about you having problems with your friend? Is it important you find her so childish? And what is childish according to you? If your friend is dealing with life, work different as you would do it doesn't mean she has problems (I did not hear you mention one problem at all). It is up to her if she wants to fall in love or not (some people are able to say they won't and will not but mostly this is out of our hands), there also might be a good reason why she can't tolerate her common daily work (many people can't). So again.. what exactly is your problem with your friend? I hear nothing unrealistic in her behaviour. As long as you are young you should live, there is nothing wrong with starting your own business or taking any risks. Why always so serious?
@HuaZhao (457)
• China
7 Oct 12
I love my friend. I wish she will get better and better life. But she meets troubles everyday. Yesterday , she told me a trouble again. She wants to quit her job. So, she couldn't live the house belonging to her current company. She rent a house from an agency. The house is very dirty. She. asked the agency to clean the house. The agency promised to hire a hour labour. But the agency asked her to look after the cleaning process and gave her 40 dollars. So, at noon, an hour labour came and doing cleaning. 6 hours later, she had done all job. When my friend gave her money to the maid.But she said she got pay by hour. The total was 140 dollars. My friend called the agency and wanted areason. The agency told her to discuss this with maid and he had been off duty. Finally, they got end with unhappiness.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
i am nt sure i got what you were trying say here... But if she has sorted out her plans that way then if ahe is my friend i would understand her. And her choices. It is necessary to be doing so as she should be given this respect besides thos is her life and it is rcing yu all to be like her. not as if she is f
@lampar (7584)
• United States
7 Oct 12
It is alright if she is childish and not realistic, she is still young, she has plenty of time ahead of her to change course if somethings go wrong. She can handle her problem herself because she is an university graduate, let's her do whatever she desired, you shouldn't get in her way even though she is your best female friend. I can use my time in other more productive way on myself instead of on her. 
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
I really believed that what we have done in college or in our education is not actually a passport on our success... still, we have to cope up with what our future brings us...
@marguicha (215829)
• Chile
6 Oct 12
I hope that she makes some use of what she learned at the university when she starts her business. Wanting to run her own business does not mean she is childish. As for love, people can say that until love knows at their door.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
Indeed, those particular guys are flooding our society. I am also a guy and I can really say that most of our kind are pretty happy go lucky and doesnt really bother the real problems and realities of life. Most of us takes life for granted and are just going with the flow of the society.
@MsControversy (446)
• United States
6 Oct 12
I agree with you. There a lot of people who go to college just to say they went and then spend their life not putting their degrees to any type of good use. When people go to school, they need to go for something that they actually have a passion for and something that they want to spend their life doing. Otherwise, they're just wasting time and money on a degree that is going to sit around and collect dust. I'm sorry that your friend is having so much trouble in life. Starting your own business is hard work and it also costs a lot of money depending on what she wants to do. I run a web design business and it's not as easy as it sounds. Everyone wants a website, but no one wants to pay for it. Too many people want things for free nowadays. I wish her luck in her journey. =)
