Whats happening to my married life?

India
October 7, 2012 5:28pm CST
Hi dear all, My life is not so much good after my marriage, I am not able to understand what is good and bad for me. I am not able to understand if I didn't did anything wrong for anyone in my life, so why all bad happening in my life :'(
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4 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
8 Oct 12
kailesh sorry. discuss frankly with her-- tell her your likes, dislikes, education, employment, wealth, expectations. learn about her also. if any changes to be made and is possible accept. otherwise agree for divorce. In pune a boy's marriage to be held on november 18 was called off ten days back by the girl. girls are adamant and proud nowadays. it differs from person to person.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
8 Oct 12
If you can send date of birth particulars thro PM i may be able to suggest what i know.
• India
8 Oct 12
Thanks For Reply Ravisivan, I can mail u our details can you please share your email address so i can send u PM.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
Perhaps you're just going through a phase. Talk to your wife about it, help her out to understand you better. Perhaps seek some help from professionals or have your "me time". Perhaps the situation is too overwhelming that you cannot see the silver lining. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
• India
7 Oct 12
Hi laydee, Thanks for reply. Thing is that her parents were lying to her against me and my family. Now she have some ego problem because they were lie to her now she is not interested to listen any truth for our relationship, about the situation or anything else.
• India
7 Oct 12
she is so far from the reality and truth.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
8 Oct 12
It is sad to hear that you wife is not trusting you but listening to her family members who are plotting against you and your family. Just try to make her understand. if she loves you, she will listen to you and not anyone else. If she does not listen and respect you, then sorry it was not meant to be. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
• India
8 Oct 12
Hi Riya, I don't know whats happening her she knows that her parents were always against me and my family. Even previously she she even dont want to go back to meet her parents. Just because of her parents but now the time is changed she wont trust me or my parents.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
7 Oct 12
As a newly-wed, I also experienced some major adjustments and concerns about me and my husband. Maybe you're also experiencing the same. Maybe its time to have a heart to heart talk with your wife. Always bear in mind that it is your marriage, and only the two of you should dictate how you will proceed from there, and not anybody else.
• India
7 Oct 12
Hey Raine, Her parents & aunt were interfering in our life not for good reason but against me and my family. I am trying to telling her what the truth is but she is not interested to listen. :(