Will marry her?

Philippines
October 9, 2012 7:21pm CST
Will you marry your girl/boyfriend because their pregnancy occur? I meam would you get married because of the pregnancy? Is it unfair for the baby that s/he the reason why her parents get marry then when it doesnt work they where blamed. Would you marry or get marry?
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5 responses
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 12
A life has been created and both must be responsible for the unborn child. What choice do they have but to get married.
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Their still other choice they can be still parent and take the responsibility to the baby even they are not married.
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 12
Maybe they can make such arrangement but it is not fair for the child to be born out of wedlock
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
And they should te child understand the situation and the reason why his mom and dad are living separately.
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Marriage is not the solution for every problem. If I would be in that situation, I will not get marry because of that. I will get marry because I want to and I am ready to be committed forever. Having a child is a responsibility and it needs a mom and dad to be whole. But, one thing that concerns me is the fact that if the relationship of marriage will not work out, the child will be traumatized, especially if it will be blamed for their mistakes..
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Marriage is not the key of a problem.
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
Yup, it is not. It should be decided wisely..
@GemmaR (8526)
10 Oct 12
I don't think that you should get married just because there is a baby involved unless you love your partner and actually want to be with them. One of the best things for a child is to have a stable life. I don't think that it matters if their parents are married or not, and the only thing that matters is that both of the parents are able to have a relationship with the child on their own rather than together. A child in a home where their parents don't get on is never going to be able to have to quality of life that they really deserve.
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Yeah before they get marry they must be sure that they will be together because of love not because of a responsibility.
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
10 Oct 12
first of all, that child is the result of rape victim or not? if it is because its biological mother father silly act, then yes they should marry if the girl or one of them wants to keep the baby alive. if they don't want their act fruitful to get a baby they shouldn't be so irresponsibly taking that action in the first place. they can get divorce if they can't live together by their once-loved one forever their lives. and keeping that child for various reason and for the baby;s sake, the girl should marry. in my country, a person will not have their full right and facilities when he/she doesn't get a legal papers. and their baby can be the victim of it. not right away but he/she will. furthermore for girls who are pregnant outside marriage, their life would be in misery, the society will make that certain. so either act responsibly, abort it or get married.
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
if it will happen to me I rather marry than abort my baby.
• United States
10 Oct 12
There is no way I am getting married because I got pregnant. I would not put myself or my child through all that trama. I would hope the father would stick around and take care of his situation. but no way would I get married for a child. I can be a great mother without being a wife.
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Your right maybe mariage is not always the answer