how can i forget my ex-girlfriend?

Philippines
October 19, 2012 11:11am CST
My girlfriend broke up with me 1year ago, but we remained friends after our brake up, and well, i guess thats my big problem is, i always remember those days that were together and i get jealous everytime she talking some one. How can i forget her?
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
19 Oct 12
don`t like that she is your girlfriend several times ago but you should remember, she have own life,,and you have your own life.. maybe it`s destiny that both of you separated 1 years ago just think positive and fulfill your days with a good action, so you didn`t feel alone and jealous with your ex it`s her rights for making a friend with anyone that she likes..you have no rights for telling her, that you don`t like she have a friend..
• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
you're right, adhyz, but not everyone will say it's easy to forget her ex when he still have strong feeling. may be he need time to forget and accept the reality. or may be he needs new girlfriend. what do you think? if you were him, what will you do?
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
of course he should cure him heart first and then he can try to move on
• Indonesia
2 Nov 12
how to cure it?? is it easy in your view to cure broken heart?
• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
how about open your heart for someone else. I means if you want to forget someone, sometimes the most easiest way is finding her substitute. don't waste your time thinking of her and make more relationship ( could be friendship ) with more people. for a while, you can choose to avoid her. may be it's work
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
i think he must have many activities before trying to search new girlfriend..
• Indonesia
2 Nov 12
yeah, but having the new one will replace the old one's memories, right??
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
hi, meaning you still have feelings for you ex-girlfriend,because you still feel jealous for her,but i think you should avoid her so that you will totally forget her and also to move on from your past.or its good for you to have a friendship only with her.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
20 Oct 12
Ask yourself why you remained to be good friends. It's unnatural to be since it's not possible to start a new life and relationship with your ex looking over your shoulder. So I would advice you to make plans for your own future, set goals, go on with your life and tell your ex you have no time for her now till you are settled. Ex means exit.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
Don't interact with her too much. Find a fun activity to do with your friends. Maybe you'll meet a new potential girlfriend along the way? You are still not over her, I see, even after one year. You must like her a lot.
• Qatar
27 Oct 12
It is difficult to forget somebody you really love and has been a part of your life for a long time. Maybe, when time comes that you'll find a girl that will make you fall in love again, maybe it then that you will learn to forget her.
@GemmaR (8517)
19 Oct 12
It is very hard when we split up with people, because we were obviously with them because we loved them, and it can be incredibly hard for us to move on when we are no longer with them. I think that the only thing that you can do is to try to make sure that you're always busy. This means that you would not really have the time to think about the person who you miss, because you will have more than enough to keep yourself occupied. Try to cut all contact with her, as you will never be able to forget about her if you stay in touch.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Hi nehl_v8, it really hard to forget all those memories especially if you still love her. I think you can not forget her because she became part of life and until now you still have some feeling for her. Why don't you talk to her and tell about your feelings? Or you can go out with your friends and have some fun with them in this way you can forget her even for a while.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
19 Oct 12
One year has passed and you are still in love with her.. I am sure she must be already dating someone, correct me if I am wrong here. try to do other things which does not remind you of her.Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.