My mother is my bestfriend..

@kokomo (1867)
Philippines
October 21, 2012 11:55pm CST
Hello my dear fellow mylotters! Do you consider your mom as your best friend? Me, myself considers my mom as my best friend and she's like more than a sister to me.I can divulge all my secrets to her. She acts as if she is also young and can relate with my lifestyle. She is always allowing me to go out with my friends. She is always there to hear my sentiments in life and always helps me with my problem, always lifts me up when I am down.I can say that I am lucky enough that my mom possesses those kind of attitudes as a mother.Unlike other mothers, that were so strict with their sons and daughters, my mother is not that strict but she is always telling me that I should be always take care myself most especially when I am away from them(my family).
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21 responses
• China
22 Oct 12
I love my mother so much, but I can't consider her as my best friend. We always have different opinions in some questions. I envy all of the people who can make best friendship with their mother, but I also enjoy the time together with my mother, because she is the one I most care about in this world.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
31 Oct 12
Hi soony, hi kokomo, I can`t say my mother is my bestfriend, she worked in an office for 25 years, she wasn`t at home most of time. So I can`t feel confident with her, this doesn`t mean I don`t love her, or she doesn´t love me, just life was like this for us. But I try to be the mother I didn´t have. I think my daughter considers me her bestfriend, I took her and pick her from school, I work at home, and we have to much time to share and dialogue. What do you think about? Blessings to both of you... dainy
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
Well, I don't consider my mom as my bestfriend. Because she's so strict over me. Besides, there's a gap between the two of us. And I can't consider her as a nice or cool mom. :)
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@cloud31 (5809)
22 Oct 12
I always treat my mom as my bestfriend,with whom I can share my inner thoughts and feelings. She is always the person I can lean on with no hesitation.I can always sure of my safety in words and indeed.In virtual nothing and no one compares to my mom.She enlighten up my whole being the only person I can trust,the very first person I can consider the best person in my life,since my dad passed away I know those two person in my life bring the best of me. For me,my parents are the best! They are my besfriend and that lucky to have them as my bestfriends.. I'm happy you do the same..Take care!
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@iamma3e (68)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
Yes, I consider my mom as my best friend. I'm lucky that I have a close relationship with my mom. I can ask her questions that some kids doesn't like to ask their mothers about. Sometimes, my mom is the one who brought up topics that may be too taboo for other people. And, despite the fact I'm close to my mom, I still don't tell her everything. There are just some things she doesn't have to know.
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22 Oct 12
Most women find themselves having bestfriend with their mom. I think of their gender.As for men, they will be consider themselves as bestfriend. IN my case my wife is my bestfriend. Happy mylotting!
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@iamm12 (68)
22 Oct 12
Yes, to me also my mom is my best friend. I am a temper girl. when I do any wrong my mother scolds me and I get angry. Remember I had wrote that I am a temper girl this is the proof for I am a temper girl. For sometime we won't talk to each other. But she is the best mom by heart she come's and cool's me down. She doe's not care if I scold her because she knows that I am still a kid and she also knows I am a temper girl. You must got now only how great is my mother. I don't need to say more about my mother but still I want to say how great is my mother. She is always with me for- Sharing my secrets To help me in needs To feed me food To play with me,etc. I have a brother. She doesn't see who is good in studies or beautiful she cares for both of us. My mom is the best.
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@srjac0902 (1170)
• Italy
23 Oct 12
It is so nice to read almost all the comments on mother are positive, men and women see mother as an intimate friend or intimate companion, with whom you can share anything without any reservation. In Sanskrit there is a saying - Mathr Dhyvobhava, Pithr Dhyvobhava, Guru Dhyvobhava, meaning to say mother is a form of God, Father is a form of God and Master is a form of God. Speaking about mother, those who experience mother's love, trust and confidence, are really lucky. Mother, while loving us she transmits her faith and belief system. When she is the attraction of our heart, then we unconsciously we believe what she believes. Most of our belief system is because of our parents and in particular the mother.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
hi, that is really true because even me i choose my mother as my best friend forever,because since i was a kid she do everything just for me until i grow up,there was a time that she covered me my love life to my father because my father during that time dont want me to have a boyfriend but still my mother keep to hide it.i really love my mother and i am happy to have a mother like her.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
I may be one of the few people who is a father's girl. :) Good for you that your mother is your bestfriend. No one can know you more except our moms who carried us in theor wombs. There is a certain bond to both of us. AS you had said, pu have many bonding moments. You are lucky because many moms are not cool as yours. Enjoy more with your best friend mom. =)
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
you are very lucky to have such a mom. few moms are like that. that is the kind of mother who is an example of a good mother. our mom is never like this to us. i am not close to my mom, growing up i have developed bad feelings towards her because of the attitude and nature i can see in her that she is negative, discouraging, and is not the kind that would take time to listen and understand her daughters or children. she is always angry and is like competing and comparing herself to her children like she is the best person around. i hate to say this, but it is the truth so all i can say you are truly blessed to have such kind of a mom.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
22 Oct 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i am so glad to know that u consider your mother as your best friend and that speaks how much love affection and respect u have for her. Our mother who had sacrificed everything just to see us grow in a good environment knows us from the deep and they can only give proper and relevant advises and help when we needed it the most. We should all respect her and consider as our pioneer and guide. What say?
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@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
1 Dec 12
Yes i do believe that the mother is always our best friend. Generally father is not with us due to his commitments and office work. But mother is always accompany us in our childhood right from going to school till going to bed. Full day she is associated with us. Recently one of my fried felt very very bad because he came to know that his son is in love with a pretty girl and going to marry her, but before he wants a permission from his dad. So my friend consulted with his wife and to his surprise mother was well aware of everything right from beginning. Because children do always prefer mother as their best friend and do share all their good,bad experiences with her. It is so natural that even when we fell or have some injury the first word comes from the mouth is Aai ga! It is is marathi means a mother.
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
Glad to hear that you have a mother like her. Like you, I also have a cool mom. She was strict before but not anymore right now. I graduated from university already and she don't restrict me from what I want to do. But ofcourse, she is always there to guide and support me no matter what. :D She is always here for me to listen to cry on and to laugh with. :D I love her so much.
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@Badkid (235)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
My mom is also my bestfriend.she's the best of the best!..Our mom never betrays us..Unlike my hometown bestfriend,she was a trator.she always stole my stuffs! I hate her now.I'm Plastic when she talks with me.She dont even know I hate her.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 12
yup, my mother is also bestfriend of me. just like you i usually tell everything to her not only the good stories of mine but alsl the bad. my mother always be the one accompany me in every step I took in my life such as enrolled in a new school or even when i went to a university. we had passed many journeys and experiences. i'm not my mom's only child or daughter cos my mom has five children but because i'm the youngest child my mom tend to spoil me. that's why i'm so close with her. even when i have got married, my mom is still my best conselor for everything happened in my life. she is strong, patient and wise. if i have a big problem i only need to see her, tell her about my feeling and abacadabra, my burden is gone in second! my mom has passed away about two months ago. i dont have best friend anymore. no one can replace her cos she is irreplaceable. she will always be in my heart, in a very special place. i love my mom and I do hope God love her like she loves me, loves us..her children..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Oct 12
Nice thought your mother is your best friend and I think our parents is our best friend no other best friend exist in the world. But not think such she likes you more than your sister because for the mother all daughter is same but we feel different. Mother is best God gift for us in the world.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
Of course, our parents are our best friends forever, we were oriented to have them since birth, they feed us, guide us and make us a good person. In return, we must treat them as what it should be. Treat them and give something good in return to them. Though my mother is not here anymore, I still think of those moments that we spent together. I have my father,still, and I consider them my best friends for life and even forever. Thanks
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
22 Oct 12
My mom was always my best friend. I could talk to her about anything any time a day. I miss her so much. Mom passed away a year ago from cancer.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
My mom is one of a kind , i can say no one can replace her in this world. She lives by example and she is very hardworking and not materialistic. She lives life with all simplicity. She is not strict , yes like you she appears more of a sister and bestfriend than a traditional mom. You can pull and push her , you can play with her , any girl talk she can do. But because she is only human like us , she got shortcomings and flaws also. One flaws i can share is i am not her favorite , and she can hardly hides it. Her favorite is my elder sister , but i was able to accept it , sometimes hurt but that long time been accepted. Despite that thing , that does not make me love her less. Still i love my mom so much , and am so blessed , God gives me a superwoman, so beautiful.
@jdalaqui (1073)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
Hi kokomo. it is a beautiful thing when parents and children are best friends. This way, the child can openly express what's inside the heart and the parents on the other hand will have the chance to intelligently guide the child.