stripper wife

United States
October 23, 2012 3:48pm CST
My fiancée and I moved recently and I popped the question on her now at the time we couldn't afford the ring and I know she's stressing with our wedding soon 2/16/13.so she comes to me and says bae ima try to get a job at a strip club because we're broke and need the money I love to dance so I might as well do it and get paid at least long enough to get my books published and for the wedding. So I agreed but after she got back from filling out an application I was mad and like I can't have no stripper as a wife that's when the argument started was I wrong or am I tripping because I should trust her word she only want the job to support us and she's not looking for no other man l.is there an solution because I really want to marry her and spend my life with her
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@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
First of all, aren't there any descent jobs she could find there than on a strip club? I mean, although you could put trust on her 100% coz she is just after the money to help for the wedding expenses, but still I don't think it is where she is supposed to work.
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• United States
25 Oct 12
Thanks and your rite I'm just checking from both side point a view
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@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
26 Oct 12
Thanks, too for viewing my opinion on a positive way. I am hoping your partner can find a really good job where she can work on even after your wedding. Best Wishes on your wedding. I hope your relationship will be stronger as the years go by and will love each other for as long as you live! Congratulations!
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• United States
5 Nov 12
Thank you so much February 13/2013 is the date
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• United States
24 Oct 12
I'm the wife and its a topless club so im trying to publish my books we need extra cash
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 12
what the means "publish my books"??
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• United States
25 Oct 12
Thanks for the comments and I was just asking for opinion after reading all the comments I see now that she's doing what's best I've seen this before but thanks the wedding Feb 16 2013
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• United States
5 Nov 12
That's nice thanks every body
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• Philippines
24 Oct 12
Well, I'm not in the right position to judge you guys. But I don't think it's a good idea for her to earn money. And I there's another way other than stripping where she could get money. :)
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@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 12
yeah..i think toxic suggestion is right.. she thinks that you maybe can think another way for earning money and it didn`t degrade your wife honour and pride...
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• United States
25 Oct 12
Thanks yall but I don't think it's degrading because I know who she really is but I am thankful that she asked me because when we first started she was sweet and experience so much pain and hurt till her attitude was horrible when it came to men so this wedding and having her books published means so much to her ive decided to support her decision because she's smart and has potential and when the books drop be on the look out she always say she's got a story burning inside her that's need to get out because she wanna save young ladies from going through what she has so again thanks ima support her and push her towards her dream
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@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 12
where is your function as head of family?? what about your earning??isn`t enough for both of you??
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• United States
5 Nov 12
My earning on top of the bills no its not enough for the both us while planning a wedding raising two kids and her trying to get her book published so no it's not
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• United States
5 Nov 12
I know that's right we only have eachother to lean on and we have to pay bills but im so blessed the lord called me back to the church home where I belong so im pure and it's out of me for now I can only keep pushing forward
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@kingparker (9698)
• United States
23 Oct 12
I don't know why you would agree with her on the first place. When she popped the question to you to be a stripper, the answer should be "no". No man would stand his fiancee or wife to strip naked in front of whole bunch perverts. Although I went to strip club with friends from time to time. You should stop your fiancee to do so, no way you can trust those places. Men who would ask her to VIP room, they got something in their mind. Stop her before you regret it.
• United States
5 Nov 12
@pack23 I understand you but that's why I didn't do it I'm now back in church and god is working every thing out for us so thank you everyone for these comments
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@mensab (4208)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
no matter how broke i would be, i could not imagine my wife to try stripping to earn some money. of course, it is understandable that you are mad. you are not wrong. you are just being a man to a woman. no man can not allow her woman to be feasted by other men. it is simply disrespectful to have your woman dancing naked in front of other men.
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• United States
5 Nov 12
I understand. Thank you for your comment things are gonna work out
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• United States
5 Nov 12
You are right and every body is different that's the point but I was trying to support my family under any means im tired of being at the bottom
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@Hatley (162000)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Nov 12
hi jampack looks like your fiancee has understood and decided to take a different better path to make money. she sounds like a wonderful girl and very courageous to bare her soul here and very much in love with you. you sound like you will make a lovely couple so congratulations on your coming marriage.