Technology bringing people further apart or closer together??

@Sindelle (824)
United States
November 4, 2012 1:47am CST
The past fifteen years we've made great advances in technology. The internet became popular and then there was the introduction to online chat. Now we're at a point where many people have lap tops, smart phones, and ipads. I don't know how many times I've sat down in a room full of people and have seen nobody talking to one another. I'll see several people sitting there on their phone or other type of mobile distraction. Anyways I know there is Mylot, Facebook, and Skype but I'm starting to wonder about some of this new technology. Do you think it brings people closer or further apart? I think there are a lot of individuals who need to put down the cell phones, ipads, and laptops sometimes.
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19 responses
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
You are telling the truth both as it makes us apart from people in the house,as it makes you busy making choices where you were surfing.You have already forgotten people are waiting for you eat your meals.You have not talk to your family anymore.It also makes you have a sort of communication to people you have not yet seen for a long time but have responded in the internet,by chatting in some websites that offers to connect all people from different parts of the globe.
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
If you are irritated by this scenario,you can have sometime with your love ones,as other people you know could always wait for your time with them.Give respect to family first because they are your responsibilities.I always make my family my priority first before I make any appointments to others.I do not believe that internet was the culprit why I could not make any appointments with my family.My friends in the internet or other people I have an appointment,knows that their family should be given much importance than chatting other people.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
4 Nov 12
I completely agree with your statement that family comes first. My family loves me very much and is always willing to give me their undivided attention. I'm just talking about people texting and calling friends at in appropriate times over non important issues.
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@Sindelle (824)
• United States
4 Nov 12
You just reminded me of something that I see people do that really irritates me. Have you ever gone out to dinner with some friends and had one of them start texting or worse yet calling or answering their phone? To me that's rather rude and I see it all the time. I could see telling someone hey I'm out a a restaurant talk to you later but beyond that its for the most part uncalled for. The world is a changing place. I remember when did was about spending time with the family and everyone prayed before hand.
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 12
That is the fact that technology can brings people apart together. But for some people who cannot understand how to take advantage on technology, they will forgot people around that close to them. This is very negative result for hanging around too much on technology. We should carry on normal relation with people around us that close to us and also with people we connected on internet. Don't left any of them behind.
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
8 Nov 12
I think I have read about that long ago where one guy play a game and he die due to heart attack I think. If I'm not mistaken it happened in Thailand base on the news that I read. For kids, it's really not good for their growth to engage too much online. This will blog their mental from normal life. We should limit them.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
6 Nov 12
I tend to think that there is a nice mix between bringing people closer together and pulling people apart. You see, if it wasn't for the internet I wouldn't be able to say that I really do have friends from places all over the world. However, it is also because of the internet that I don't have the same friendships that are local that I used to have. But I also think that no matter what happens the internet and relationships that are built from the computer are here to stay.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Its great in moderation but its scary when abused. Think about it with all the things you can do on the computer. I could sit here make friends, play games, and even order food online. If it wasn't for work I wouldn't even have to move. The sad part is too is that they're people who actually do this.
• China
4 Nov 12
This question worth our thinking. Technology really bring us many convenience,such as when we miss somebody we can call her,write to her on line. But there's many people over-addicted in online-games, then he/she has no enough time talk with others,that's also a pity.Technology may like the two side of a coin,we can't say it good or not.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Well I believe it should be used in moderation like most things in this world.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
I've actually heard with on-line games certain countries have been limiting playtime because people were spending too much time on the computer.
@litvillegas (1274)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Hello sindelle Thanks for sharing this discussion. It's actually one of the issues in our society nowadays. As we all know technology brings a lot of development but we need to consider the advantages and the disadvantages. We can stay connected to our family living abroad or to distant places, it can make our work more easier, a lot of development in science and many more. The disadvantage is that perhaps we have less time communicating within our family members because we are all occupied using our new technology.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
That's true also. I remember when we got our first family computer with internet. My father used to spend more time watching movies and playing with us kids. When we got aol he would sit there for hours. It was almost like he had a part time job. Also what made it even worse was we only had one phone line. Since at the time only dial up was offered it made it harder for me to call my friends to go hang out. So I'd sit around bored waiting for him to get off the computer so I could at least call someone.
• Singapore
5 Nov 12
It depends on what you mean when you say "bringing people further apart or closer together." I think with technology, people who live far away from one another can keep in touch with one another even though they don't meet physically. In that sense, it does bring people closer together. But when someone is too engrossed in chatting online or updating their Facebook wall and ignore all the people that are in their lives then in this sense, technology does push people apart from one another.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Exactly and its so easy to do when you're in a room full of people you don't know. Rather then talk to people and make friends its much easier to go online and talk to someone.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
It brings both- technology has advantages and disadvantages. It brings our loved ones who lives from the other part of the globe closer to us- while on the other hand it also brings gap to people who are with us. The internet keep us busy connecting with our friends and loved ones who lives far- while we neglect those who are besides us.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
4 Nov 12
I think its wonderful how in some respects it brings us closer however when I walk into a room of 30 people and everyone is staring at their cell phone it just seems a bit much. I wonder too if people are meeting new people (locally) and making friends as easily. Granted online friends are great but usually our closest friends or the people we fall in love with are the ones we happen to stand next to in line or sit next to at the bus station.
@jeolex (64)
• Turkey
4 Nov 12
If you know your limits, technological items are very helpful. Once upon a time, I was be addicted to mobile distraction, but I trained myself. Now It's benefical thing for me.Anymore, I am using the technological items when I need to them.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
That's good that you saw it happening. Most people I don't even think realize they're isolating themselves.
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
Now that you mention it, yes I do believe it has somehow bring people apart. Though it may help people who are far from each other together, it also brings people apart. a lot of people would just stay inside their house or even when they are outside, they never even take time to look at the person seated beside them on the bus or on the train. We socially isolate ourselves- and I am somehow guilty of that. (*.*)
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Its funny how many of these devices like smart phones and ipads are meant to bring us closer together but end up driving us apart in some respects. I think some people believe technology is supposed to live their life for them rather then make it easier.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
I would say both my friend. There is always a good and bad result in everything. We just didn't notice it. It depends really to the person if he or she will just let things to go worse when he can just balance his time from technology and family. You're right. I couldn't agree more that we should stop for a while and spend time talking to the people around us physically.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Sometimes people get so wrapped up with technology it goes beyond putting up that invisible wall. I've met a few internet hermits. They sit in their room in a sea of Mt Dew cans. Their skin as pale as snow and their eyes squint when the sun peers through their blinds since they're not used to sunshine. Shy around people and only know how to socially interact with those they meet online.
• India
4 Nov 12
I am quite sure that technology plays an important role in each of us life. It had really made communication quite easy with cheap rates, which made the relations bonded. The people are able to connect or contact another by dialing the numbers and they could easily transfer the message. This facility had made people to have a good touch with others even when they are distant.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Yes, I have several friends and family all over the world I barely see. It makes me happy that I can see them and catch up online.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
4 Nov 12
It mostly brings people apart in my opinion, because it reduces the personal kind of talking. Teens and adults now don't get together for a coffee or a tea to talk to each other about anything or don't meet at a playground, but they communicate through the Internet and cell phones, which slowly deteriorates a relationship, because you feel closer to people you actually meet in person. But sometimes, it brings people closer, or help you meet new people... such as on a forum with your common interests. It also helps relatives and friends living really far from each other communicate more easily and cost-effectively... and you could find those people on Facebook that you were once friends with, but life tore you apart.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
After reading your response it occurred to me that it probably mostly negatively effects the younger people. Maybe because people who are more mature realize the importance in seeing the sun and spending time with family.
@xiejiaotu (217)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 12
i think this bring people closer is when you contacting someone you know far away to know how is them doing. normally this will only show closer. but in most of the time i think this brings people further apart. like right now people are more enjoy chatting using phone rather than coming out to meet each other. some people even very active in facebook, skype,etc. but in real world they are just locking themselves in room and their social places just in a small tiny room with internet access. some cases like in the same house but family member talking to each other is using all these technology things like mother calling son to have dinner using msn, father going to work and leave a message in mail to son to tell him somethings... all these make the world communicate in digital way even the distance is just next room, upstairs, next door,etc.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Its crazy how it brings people oceans away closer together and drives the person sitting next to you further apart. We're so wrapped up in whats going on line we don't feel the need to interact with each other. I think a lot of life's simple pleasures are lost this way.
@gary23 (425)
• India
4 Nov 12
My mother keeps on complaining this whenever I am hooked onto the internet that I don't talk to her much when I am on the net. Its true that with advancement of technology , people have gone further apart. But technology also helps when you need to get in touch with your family and friends.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
4 Nov 12
Lol, sometime to me its perfectly acceptable to zone out and play on the computer. Its just when people go out of proportion. Where I work I also noticed something that I think is completely silly. I work in an office and people who sit literally across the room from one another will communicate through email. They could easily speak from across the room or walk up the the others desk but instead they email. I don't get it lol.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
9 Nov 12
I think it is all in how a person uses the technology. I agree constantly being on a device can separate people from one another. But, it can also help people stay in touch. Take SKYPE as an example. I have family that live in different states. This way we can see and speak to each other on a regular basis.
@sweety_81 (2124)
• India
8 Nov 12
Well, it seems highly ironical that in the last fifteen to Twenty years, major advancements in fields of Mobile Telephony, Video Conferencing, Internet, SMS etc has made it possible for people to interact more and more, and at the same time, changing mindsets of people is increasingly causing them to become more selfish and greedy and pulling them in away direction. I feel, in some way, when people had lesser forms of communication(and immediate communication), they were more in harmony. Constant interaction, is causing more rifts among people. Indeed, technological advancements do help in a number of ways, like in case of floods, storms, medical emergencies. However, in day to day interaction, and personal lives, technology is not helping that much. The solution lies in the prudent use of Technology and no excess use.
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
6 Nov 12
hi Sindelle, i think technology brings far people closer but at the same time makes close people further
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
Technology is what it is. It can be whatever you want it to be. We only have to realize when to use them, and when to socialize. Although your discussion has a point. People have been inside their homes more and more since the internet was invented. I'm not surprised if there's a time when holograms are invented, and you can actually talk to someone like they're in front of you, and you don't have to go out just to talk to them about something. The problem is finding out what they're going to talk about..
@litvillegas (1274)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Hello sindelle Thanks for sharing this discussion. It's actually one of the issues in our society nowadays. As we all know technology brings a lot of development but we need to consider the advantages and the disadvantages. We can stay connected to our family living abroad or to distant places, it can make our work more easier, a lot of development in science and many more. The disadvantage is that perhaps we have less time communicating within our family members because we are all occupied using our new technology.