Have you dated someone you didn't like?

@kyuheart (157)
Philippines
November 12, 2012 5:48am CST
Good evening mylotters=) It's been a long time since I last posted something here. So, anyway as what I've written above, "Have you ever dated someone you didn't like?". I was reading a manga and I've encountered this question so I was wondering as to how each person will answer it or react to it and if YES, what is the reason for it? I'm looking forward to all your thoughts!
5 responses
• Greece
13 Nov 12
People date someone that they don't like for various reason. One of them is to use him in order for a former flame to get jealous. Another one is to help her forget her hurts from her previous relationship or it can be she doesn't have someone she like now but she diesn't want to be alone and needs company. I only dated one person in my life, and yeah, I don't like him that much but I want to be close to him since the guy that I really like is his friend. But in the end, I started liking him but when he finds out that I was just using him, he got so upset and started dating another girl. No matter how I tried to explain to him that it was only at first and I really like him now, he wouldn't believe me. I guess using people in order to be close to someone is not a good idea. And I had to use another guy again in order to forget the hurt that I felt. But in the end, I got guilty so I told the truth to the guy and we end up as friends until now.
@kyuheart (157)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
I guess the guy you like is lacking in the trust and forgiving field. If he really likes you, even though he is hurt he will still accept you in the end right?! Anyway, thanks for the response! Yours is the best so far.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 12
A Big YES. Maybe I should not have accepted his date. At first I do not like him at all. As time goes by, he turned out to be fine. Now he is my husband
@kyuheart (157)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
Good for you. I guess trial and error in love is applicable in real life. Some may work out and some may not. Thanks for the response.
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 12
Yes, I always have an open mind. I will just go on a date and see how it goes. Sometimes we need to know someone better to understand him/her. Maybe he/she is not so interesting when we were first met. Later as we got to know them better, they are actually a wonderful person that we would love to have as our life partner. However, it will be great if we can meet someone who we truly like and love as our dates. That is truly wonderful.
@kyuheart (157)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
I know right!? I like your thoughts about these. We never know if we won't try. Thanks for the response.
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
well im not but my cousin ask me to date her friend before hes ok but the thing is i dont like emo guy i mean he look like emo he wear black all the time and i dont like it so even i find him a cute i never date that guy.
• Indonesia
12 Nov 12
No, I haven't. Personally, I only want to have serious relationship with someone I really like. I believe that if we date someone we don't like, we will end up hurting her/him. And will be too suffocating to make it work.