Its getting hard

Indonesia
November 21, 2012 7:07am CST
Well, Talking about our self. I don't even know why sometimes it is hard to introduce our own self just because we know our self so well therefore we do not know where to start with, or we totally do not know our own self? Uhm, I guess this is a trouble thing.
5 responses
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
11 Dec 12
It depends on the the people and the type of meeting you need to introduce yourself. what is it called for. Example: if it is in the party, you don't need to lay down your credentials.. from name to your working experiences. it will just be a casual name, sometimes, even without surname will do. then along the way, you are going to start saying a little about yourself. If it is a meeting for a corporate, of course formal, you will say your fullname and position and the objective of your coming. if it is interview for the job.. then it is the full blasts of information. although most information am sure were included already in the curriculum vitae. Not knowing who we are but the level on how much we would like to share and open. it could be just a simple name will do... or the full details about self.
@deazil (4725)
• United States
11 Dec 12
Well, I think you covered all situations Mavic. Now I know what to do. And I will introduce myself as you so in case I do something embarrassing no one will know it was me. They'll think it was you.
@deazil (4725)
• United States
12 Dec 12
Imposter! One time I was introducing myself and another girl at work (Debbie) to a new girl and I said to the new girl "I'm Debbie and she's deazil." Debbie just looked at me like I was crazy. So I said to the new girl "I mean I'm deazil and she's Debbie". Then the new girl looked at me like I was crazy. It was embarrassing. How can you introduce yourself as somebody else?
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
11 Dec 12
oh well, I also did that one time. I told them I am Deazil. hahaha ... then we are even.. I don't need to feel the guilt. whewww..
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
23 Nov 12
Most people don't know themselves so well at all. Most people are confused, they are a product/result of the way they are raised and society wants them to be. Which is in many cases completely different from the person they really are. Many close their eyes for that, ignore who they are. Others only want to be themselves and fight against being labeled, accepted on certain conditions already as a kid. A part will get into big trouble sooner or later if they discover they can't go on the way they live now.. they go searching for themselves since they are lost without family, their job, etc.. if this all is gone.
• Indonesia
23 Nov 12
I agree with you WakeUpKitty, yeah alot of people do not know themselves as well. Of course this a part of trouble thing will come sooner if we discover the way we live.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
I think it's not really that we don't know ourselves, but it's just that we lack a bit of confidence regarding who we are - our skills, our abilities, or even our looks. And if we don't fix this kind of attitude, then we will always grope for words when we're talking about ourselves.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
We may know ourselves that much but we do not have enough confidence to tell others who we really are. That could also be a reason, right? So, one should be confident enough to tell anybody who he really is.
@cgicale (137)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Yes I agree with beamer. It's not really that hard to introduce ourselves. It's only a matter of building confidence and knowing your strengths and weaknesses. Once you know that you start working on improving your strengths and work on your weaknesses. once your confident of yourself it would be much easier to introduce yourself to any crowd at any time. You can showcase you strengths and the fact that you are working on your weaknesses.