is it reallt tough to become happy?

November 23, 2012 3:10pm CST
i think every one in this planet has the birth right to be a happy person...most of the time it has been seen that we are unhappy due to the problem created by us.So much concentration given to some topic also make us unhappy...the best way to be happy is spread happieness..
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
23 Nov 12
Most of us need someone to makes us happy. If we dont have that person its real hard. Been there, done that. Still havent found it yet.
23 Nov 12
yes maria we need someone to make us happy.the reason is we are over dependent on others...if we try to become a someone for our loving ones than we can make their life more happier...once you make happy others than they can not heart you any more...try it,it is possible..
• Indonesia
27 Nov 12
I agree with you. When we spread happiness, we tend to be happy as well, when we're smiling to other person, we also tend to feel more happy, especially when we're doing good deeds for others, part inside of us will be happy and feel good too. And happiness is actually doesn't determined by material things in our life but also how we look at our life and be grateful for the good things that come in our life. That's all we all should do to gain happiness
@peavey (16936)
• United States
25 Nov 12
I don't think we have the right to be happy, but we do (or should) have the right to pursue things that make us happy as long as they don't interfere with the rights of others. The way we think, of course, controls the way we feel. We can learn to smile and we can learn a certain degree of happiness, no matter what our circumstance.
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
most people find it hard to be happy because we always try to find happiness into someTHING else or someONE else wherein the truth is happiness is with in us, it's just a matter of choosing whether we want to BE happy or NOT. It's a matter of choosing to be content with what we have. It's just a matter of perspective... because sure enough there'll be situations that will make us sad or situations that will give us a hard time that we can't change in an instant but we can change our attitude towards it, it's just a matter of choice of choosing TO BE HAPPY NO MATTER WHAT :) what could be better is being JOYFUL at all times through GOD