Are you happy with your life?

I have been trying to make it better. His efforts are little less than mine. Well, our situation is kinda complicated most especially that he is still behind his parents' shadow, even at 42! But I am hopeful that things would still turn out great....in due time.

I can completely relate to how you feel. I use to feel this way a lot especially for the last three years. I still feel this way it's just I'm starting to get disappointed because every time I have tried I have been disappointed. Because I'm the one who does everything around our home, and the one who tries to make the relationship better, while my husband does only things that interest him. This week we will be going to a type of counseling that will hopefully help us with our marriage. I think that it is like a last effort on my part. I'm now trying to look at things from the point of view of not caring how my husband feels about the things I want to do. If I worry about those things it will only create more stress and hard feelings. I need to do what I want to do and just work on keeping a good friendship between my husband and I. When we stay good friends that will help our marriage. And besides when I do things that make myself happy I'm in a better position to be a good wife. There is nothing wrong with working to improve ourselves. Hopefully this meeting will go well.

I forgot to add that I hope things between you and your husband improves as well. Having marriage problems is awful. Perhaps you and your husband can find some way to reconnect. Perhaps doing things together that you did before you were married. I hope to hear that things are getting better.

Yeah I understand what you mean. We seem to be in the second category. We have a daughter but it would be nice to have some more money coming in. I'm hoping to work at it more. I would like to do better with savings. I hope that if you want children that you will be able to have them.

I agree with you. Life really is too short. Each and every day when we hear about the suffering and loss of others we are reminded of this fact. It is important for us to remember to enjoy life and always tell our family how much we care for them.

I'm glad that you were able to achieve a peaceful life for you and your family. That at times can be hard to do. I agree the world is a totally different thing. If we can achieve these things in our family life then we are happy to come home and get away from it all. I will have to work on that going to bed early part. I never get to bed early and I'm always up early.

I'm glad to hear that you are happy with your boyfriend. When we have a successful relationship we really are able to be happy about other aspects of our life. It rubs off in a good way. Keep up with your hobbies and enjoy your life.

I'm glad to hear that you are happy. We really can be happy when we are able to provide the necessities that we need. It's when we think that we need so much more that we start to feel disappointed. Keep up the good work.