how are u paring?

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Hey i feel so bad about your friend and i know she must be broken after seeing that email. I think she should have realized by now that she is with the wrong guy. With such good friends like u around her, she should have paid at least some heed otherwise she would have never seen this ugly day. I hope she is fine now and forget everything that has happened with her. What say?

To be honest I don't think you gave her the best advice. Telling someone who is crying day after day and in such pain to be patient because this is love is wrong. Since there is no love if you are that unhappy! So if it comes to that you have all reasons to be upset. I don't think a friend in such need is waiting for such kind of advice. If you are unhappy you want to know you have a friend, you need to feel that friend. Not to hear: keep patience this is love! Sorry this is NOT love! I think it's good he put this to an end. She has the right to be upset, angry, sad, to cry and even hate. Sooner or later she will start building her life again. It will be hard but her child is worth it, she will find someone else, make friends, start smiling again and discover she is a strong person, a fighter, a survivor. A person with personality, character and self esteem. This is how life is. She is not the only one, many had these kind of experiences, already since ages. They made it (I am one of them btw) and she can make it too!