What would you do if you saw your man/woman with the other girl or guy??

@Badkid (235)
Philippines
November 28, 2012 1:26am CST
I might be surprised if you tell me what would you do if you saw you man with the other woman. Maybe you'd slap on him,or maybe you'd smack him and the girl.Or maybe,you'd use Karate to kill them..LOl!..now I got a story for you,I'll tell you what just happened to me yesterday at the restaurant,it's very sad..here we go.. Yesterday,I came to Resto and I ate.while I'm eating,I saw my cousin's boyfriend with the other girl.They sit right behind me.OMGEEE,,,They didn't knew I was on their front,.I did not knew what to do.I stopped eating and then I feel very angry.! I feel like I'm going to have an asthma!. well,I'm asthmatic. and then I stand up,in front of them. My cousin's boyfriend was shocked,he didn't knew what to do. he also stand up.the girl was upset. I snapped him 3 times.I shouted on him. All the people on the Resto has stopped eating.they watched us like watching a theater but,I didn't get shy;I'm not a shy person.! I continue scolding him..
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@betty1989 (752)
• China
28 Nov 12
Getting angry is my first reacition if I see my man with the other girl. IT IS VERY NORMAL,RIGHT? SECONDS, I will keep telling myself cooling down. The reasonable thing I should do is to ask" can you explain this for me" I will listen the reason from my man carefully. If I can accept, then it is clear or we will just lead to break up.
@Badkid (235)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
all you just need to do is do the right thing..no matter how hurt it is and dont be weak..
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• St. Peters, Missouri
28 Nov 12
I've never been in this situation, fortunately, but but knowing me, I would probably emotionally fall apart (I tend to get overly emotional at everything!) and not be able to do anything right away. Once I recovered in a day or two, I'd get out of the relationship.
@Badkid (235)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
ohh,,you should not be weak,and dont let the weakness succumbs you..
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
If I caught my partner with another partner, well that would be devastating. Although I don’t like to make a scene, and I don’t want to promote any commotion if I were on that situation, I would just let it surpass the night and by tomorrow, I would definitely confront my partner and tell that we should probably have a cool-off.
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
By doing such, you've alerted the other woman that you're just protecting the rights and feelings of your cousin, which you concluded is now being abused. Have you asked them, their relationship? What if she was his sister? cousin? You could be sued and land in jail for that offense. If I were you, you should have keep your cool, gather enough evidence from their conversation, then hurry to finish your meal, and go directly to your cousin to report the matter.
@cutepenguin (6458)
• Canada
29 Nov 12
I don't know what I would do. I think I would usually assume that they were just out as friends because he does have some friends from University that I haven't met. I would definitely go talk to them and see how they reacted and base my reaction on that.
@CloudXD (84)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
If i were you in your position i will not do anything because its not my problem its not your boyfriend. just tell it to your cousins. if it was me you slap i'll make your life miserable you pay what you've done.
@CloudXD (84)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
If i were you in your position i will not do anything because its not my problem its not your boyfriend. just tell it to your cousins. if it was me you slap i'll make your life miserable you pay what you've done.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
29 Nov 12
In all honesty i would be seeing red if my man was with another woman., I can not see me taking this situation well. The explaation had better be a good one or I would be walking away to find something better for my life.
@doroffee (4233)
• Hungary
28 Nov 12
I'm not a really scandal-making, red blooded, theatrical, short-tempered kind of person. If I saw him with another girl, I would go up to them, I would make a snarky, witty remark in a low, calm voice to them, from which that would be obvious that I'm together with him, but she can have this liar :D, then walk away with my head up high. I'm jut not for making scenes in front of a crowd, they don't have to know that I am cheated on, also, I don't wanna be a center of attention, and I don't wanna disturb or ruin their afternoon or meal, either. But at home, I might shout at him afterwards, but I wouldn't stay a second longer in our relationship, if he's that much of an unreliable person.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
I haven't been on the situation but I guess I will get mad very mad. But I won't make any scene on public place so maybe I will cool down myself and then approach them like ohhh hi small world. . Then I will tell him maybe I didn't know we broke up already. And after that of course he owe me an explanation and if it is valid then I don't know if I can still trust him.