A kid ask money from me
By AkamaruKei
@AkamaruKei (5204)
Malaysia
December 2, 2012 2:35am CST
Today, this evening i go to cybercafe. After near 1 hour in there i see 1 kid going to me and ask a money from me. I say to her i dont have money but she keep force me and follow me. After that i give her money but she say that is not enough she want more. I say to her ask money from your mum and your daddy. She still follow me that makes me uncomfortable. After that i just ignore her. She also not follow me after i ignore. Ahh i think my decision give her money is not good decision. I know she is just cheat me. Of course after this she ask money again if she see me. Did you have experience like this and what you do?
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@betty1989 (751)
• China
2 Dec 12
since we have mercy on this girl, and we give money to her, she will definately want more. She cannot satisfied until you ignore her. i have similar experience once in Nanning. There are so many people like that girl. Although I have mercy on them, but I cannot since I am not wealthy enough. If that girl is really in need, maybe I will give her some money. If she jusy for treating me, Oh, awful. I will think I am a fool.
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@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 12
Of course they want more. First he/she say he/she want 1 dollar. When you give 1 dollar they say not enough and then he/she say 2 dollar. That is what happen to me today so i just ignore her!
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
2 Dec 12
how would you know that if you don't know anything about her. did you follow her to her mansion? betty, how did you know she doesn't need the money. what if she does need the money?
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Yes, sometimes when I encounter those kind of less fortunate children, I can't resist to get angry with their parents because if they are responsible then there should not be child beggars on streets. Sometimes I do give them a coin but if some are annoying me they keep on going where I go then I just got angry with them.
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@Senbonzakura (344)
• India
2 Dec 12
But if we think practically they are not at fault the main mastermind is behind them and we even don't know what difficulties they have to face if they dint bring any money at home.
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 12
I dont want people think that is my younger sister that why i give her money. That is their parent responsibility to teach their child not to ask money from other people. What happen if i am a bad guy of course i sell their child. They will sad when they lost their children. They should take care their children.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
1 Mar 13
hi AkamaruKei,
actually it is quite dangerous for a little girl to beg for money from stranger guys. good thing she met you but not other guys who might be doing some terrible things to her. nowadays there are so many rape cases involving girls and even children. 
i don't really know about you, maybe you have that something that attract children to you. children may easily sense that you are a good guy and safe to be with. 
i don't really know about you, maybe you have that something that attract children to you. children may easily sense that you are a good guy and safe to be with. @victorywp (3524)
• United States
2 Mar 13
hi AkamaruKei,
that means you look like a rich man's son? i also want money from you! please send some cash to my paypal! 
just kidding! LOL! 
just kidding! LOL! @AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
3 Mar 13
Haha but in my pocket and wallet it dont have anything. Sometimes older man cycling with older bicycle we think poor but actually he have a lot of money.
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
2 Mar 13
I dont know maybe i am look like someone have a money that why he ask money from me.
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
You know what, it is so embarrassing to think that children nowadays have already been so addicted with renting computers for online games or just for internet surfing. Because of their addiction, they tend to do bad things such as from asking money to strangers and the worst, some boys, even offer their own selves to homosexuals in order to have money.
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@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
Yeah children right now very addicted to computer video games. Sometime i see they are to small. They should study in the house not playing video games in cybercafe. What their parent do? Are they want their children dont have future?
@anil02 (24688)
• India
3 Dec 12
Hello, I don't know from which country are you. Bagging is problem is my country India also. In all cases beagers are not cheater. They may be have some problem. It is better if you asked her to told you reason for asking money. It is opinion that if some helpless person ask you for giving some money than you we must be help them.
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@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
That child is not poor. She say her dad going to work when i ask her go get money from your dad. I not see the real beggar here but i just see a child try to cheat adult people!
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
2 Dec 12
Yes,I had... worse than that.. LOL... A young dirty boy approached me asking for money...
Me: I don't have money.
Boy: you have (then point at my bag)
Me: no..
Boy: You have. (then kept on following me)
Me: I have here sandwich... (and hand it over to him)
Boy: (Accepted it ... check what is inside the bread.....then throw the sandwich back at me) I want money.. I don't like the filling of the sandwich.
My goodness. grrrrrrrr 
I gave him my snack.. only to be thrown back at me.
I gave him my snack.. only to be thrown back at me.
@cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
He makes you a bad boy. That boy is so choosy to beg at you.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
2 Dec 12
Sensbonzakura.. whewww. such hard to type name. LOL. yes, I was so disappointed and really grrrrrrr.... that's my favorite sandwich.
Cobalt. Yes, that's an odd one. Very disappointing
@shaggin (71678)
• United States
3 Dec 12
Aww well I think that it was sweet of you to give the kid money. I dont know how old this kid is but it was rude of them to ask for money. Some kids havent been taught that. If the child was little they should have been sitting with parents instead of the kid walking around bother people.
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
Yeah that is very rude when a kid ask money from adult people. Better they study at home than they beg other people for money.
@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
4 Dec 12
There was one kid in my town who used to beg for money. I gave him once and only once. He was problematic all over town because him mom wasn't a good mother. This kid got sent away by social services to junior military boarding school. It's a great institution for learning and passing all your classes to matriculate from high school. Also the kids learn to be a proper human in society. This kid turned into a fine young man. I see him every once in a while when he comes back to visit people in town.
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
If at here have that school so it can train children not to waste of time and become a useful person to community
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
Yeah they should study at home and not learn to be beggar. That not a good attitude.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
16 Jan 13
How can she have cheated you if all she did was beg for money? If that sort of thing makes you uncomfortable you should speak to the management at the cybercafe. The child may have been homeless or her parents may have sent her out to beg. Giving her money probably helped her family to have something to eat.
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 13
She beg money for playing video games. At here no one is very poor and dont have a home. My mom say there a some of kid beg money from people at here. If we give money to them we very idiot because that money they will using it to playing video game or other useless things.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
5 Dec 12
Thanks for sharing Aka..
I don't visit net cafe, but i find such kids near temples begging for food and money, well i know many are cheats; i never give them money directly, usually i take them to a place to eat, buy food for them and ask them to eat in front of me only.....
I don't visit net cafe, but i find such kids near temples begging for food and money, well i know many are cheats; i never give them money directly, usually i take them to a place to eat, buy food for them and ask them to eat in front of me only.....@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 12
Yeah professor, at here it dont have a real beggar it just have a kid try to cheat adult people. I will never give her money next time. That just a liar kid!
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 12
You should not give her any money to avoid being a habit to her.
You should warn her for not simply ask money from strangers and she could be brought to the police station for punishment.
I did experience once. A teenager asked money from me but I warned him for not doing so.
If I were you, I should ask her back for the money. ha! ha!
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 12
Haha yeah my mum also suggest that to. 'When that kid ask money from you, you should ask money from her to.' Next time if she ask from me i will do that.
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
I haven't experience that one because I really don't give them money.
For the reason that some of them might be working for a gambler or their parents are just at home waiting for their kids' money.
Most of the time, these people really have the guts to make money for themselves but they just don't want to sometimes.
Because they know that they can still get money from other people by begging.
So we can't blame them actually because lots of people are still giving money to them.
But it's a good thing because now you know and next time, you won't let it happen again.
Because they know that they can still get money from other people by begging.
So we can't blame them actually because lots of people are still giving money to them.
But it's a good thing because now you know and next time, you won't let it happen again.@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
Yeah after this of course i dont want to give money to that child again!
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
I also have experience as childhood but i never ask money to other people i dont know.
@goldenteardrops (747)
• United States
3 Dec 12
it is good to give if for the right reasons, I usually ask what it is for and if they said food then I would just go and buy them something to eat and just tell that you do not give money lots of times they do other things not of good use for them and sometimes never stop ..sometimes it has been known parents put them up to it which is for something that they just want...I try to help out when I can but I need to know what it going for and usually just go on and buy it myself if I have if I think it is a good cause...
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
3 Dec 12
I dont know what will happen to this child when they grow up as adult. Of course they become lazy to find job and want to be beggar.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
2 Dec 12
Hi friend, we don't encourage this kind of persons and never give money to them, you realized it later. I too faced this kind of situation, but i don't offer money to this kind of kids, they will misuse this kind of money.
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 12
Maybe their parent dont want to give money for them because they know their children will waste money. That why their children ask a money from other people.
@Senbonzakura (344)
• India
2 Dec 12
Ya ignoring them is the best way out and even you feel sad for them and give them money,the money is not used for right purposes.In our country the small children's forced are by their parents only to by themselves liquor or for gambling.
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 12
I sad because my money lost. Ahh why i so very idiot i get cheat by a kid.
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
There is no social service at my place. If it have of course i want to report about them.
@habibti320 (925)
• United States
3 Dec 12
I really hate this because our culture has become so hardened towards giving to needy people. Those that have abused naive people to give them money make it almost impossible for people who are in a desperate situation to get help.
Last night I was approached by a guy in the parking lot who seemed lost and asked for gas money. I felt bad for him, but in my mind I was just thinking of how little money I have and how he might be scamming me. I ended up just telling him I couldn't help.
@AkamaruKei (5204)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
I think you must be careful maybe that a trick to rob you. Who know?
