if only reading discussion could give me earnings as well

Hey, I also find the same with me also. When I see posts, I always want to give the reply in a very detailed way, but sometimes, its like I can't find the right words for matching the topic even though I know these words but, they just fly away from your head at that point, which results in the response that I feel was not expressed in the right way! And lastly would like to tell you that just separate your mind from rest of the things for a while, it certainly helps. Have a good day.

you need to relax and relax and relax... you have mental block and that incident was the one blocking in. Breathe in and breath out. If you can go out and breathe fresh air it will help. I wish you well Verna..

I have had days like that when I have spent most of my time on my lot reading discussions and not responding than I have working on responses.Though it dosent bother me that much as I get to read some interesting discussions,my lack of a response dosen't indicate any lack of interest.It would probably bother me if I only came on this site to earn money as any time not posting would be time wasted and I would want to be as productive as possible.However I come on this site to particpate in a community.

In general, if reading was a job, I will be a millionaire in shortest span of time. Like you, I find some good discussions to read but soemtiems, I don't think it is my place to reply or if I will ever contribute something meaning furl to the discussion.soemtiems,I try to reply but come with a blank screen in front of me. It's really frustrating but I don't try to push it. It might not be a good idea to be doing so. Like you, I have the same problems in life and work, repeating the same all over again. It's like a routine already.

I feel that way sometimes as well.

Hi! Stay calm. I suggest you take a day off to compose yourself. Compose as in just close your eyes and concentrate on the things you want to do. Sharing this post itself was the biggest step against - 'Something is not working in my mind right now'

My advice is to have a rest first and have a good sleep because your mind will have to relax. Sleep at leat an hour or take a nap. Problem can have a solution in your family. Just keep on responding or do comments in discussions. Your writing keeps you on track.

vernaC oh my mylot would go broke as how would they even know you read them. Thats as lazy a s it gets.Do not think of family when you are here,Just think I am Verna and I have lots of good things to say in my responses,. Believe it and you will do it.I think you do well in your discussion so just imagine you are talking to the person you are responding to. These are really conversations we have with each other on my lot.Look perhaps you need to dump on us if you feel up to it and spit out whats hanging you up . I often dig into my own personal life and get a lot of responses that way then I comment back on all of them.we are all friends here and people want to help if you let them.

Hello Verna ! Ha ha, yes reading discussion is our actual main activity here, it takes longest and we do it for free :) I also sometimes am at a loss of words, or decide I can't or don't want to answer a discussion, but I of course already read it when I decide this. Take care :)

It does happen to me sometimes, just reading others posts and couldn't comment on them even in one sentence. Just let it pass, we always have that kind of days. In time, you will be able to respond and think properly.

I do that sometimes too! I don't know why I just read everything at times and don't feel the want to respond to things. I hate when that happens to me!

Hi friend, sad to hear about this, problems are quite common to every one, if we are thinking a lot about our problems, we don't have the ability to concentrate with other things, so come out from your problems and concentrate in mylot to divert your self. We need concentration to participate in mylot, so avoid worries. Cheer up

Go take in a holiday lights display somewhere and have some hot chocolate, come home have a nice hot shower. You'll feel loads better and be able to write again. Best wishes! :-)

I fell you and you have put across and expressed what i do feel though. they could pay us for reading too! what do you think?

Personally, I think we all go thru it from time to time where we have days where we read discussions in here, and just cannot find the words to be able to respond back. It would be nice if this did not happen but like you when you have a lot of things bothering you, it is hard to find the right words without someone wanting to delve more into it later.

hi u need to respond to mylot discussion so that u can make u r earnings more