The friendship in my eye

@HuaZhao (457)
China
December 6, 2012 9:30pm CST
Hi,mylotters,do you like making friends? I love making friends although I am an introvert. Friends can make our life more wonderful. Here I would like to share my opinion about friendship ignoring the genders.I think friendship can be classified into four types. First type, you can play with these guys, but you couldn't get into the heart of each other. Second type, you can get along well with each other and also you can get into the heart of each other. Third, these kinds of friends are so fascinating that they can get into you heart and even they can inhabit the whole space of your heart. The last kinds of people are the ones who are given by God and can steal your heart. What's your idea about friendship? Do you agree with me?
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10 responses
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
You can never expect that all of your friends to be true to you, i experience a lot of friends that come and goes, those friends are mixed with bad and the good.We cannot live with no friends at all we really need to have one even not a long term friend but at least they become your friend somehow.
@HuaZhao (457)
• China
8 Dec 12
jeztrose,it is really hard to have a lifelong friend.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
Yes indeed that is why friend just come and go,the important thing is to have a true friend that will help you when you needed them that is what friends are supposed to be.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Dec 12
hi HuaZhao yes I think y ou are right and I have a best fri end who does steal my heart and is always there for me and wonderfully our sons are also best fri ends. we have all been best friends now for more than twenty years. I have been through thick and thin and she has always been there for me too.And I will always been there for her too. my son is much the sa e way too.I depend on him and he has never ever let me town.God ordained them and I am so glad to know Nelda and her son michael.
@HuaZhao (457)
• China
8 Dec 12
Thank you, Hatley. You really understand me, we will feel lonely because the person who steal our heart.
@youless (112164)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Dec 12
Since I am only one child in my family, so the friendship is quite important in my life. Friends can share our happiness and sadness. They will help you whenever you are in need. As time goes by and we all have our families. It seems that we don't contact with each other. However, the feeling is still the same. When you see each other, you don't have to be so polite as well as to a stranger. You can still talk and act like the past. These are real friends.
@lldrwin (187)
• China
8 Dec 12
Hello HuaZhao,I'm on your side,that is my point,too. To me ,I think friendship should last long time ,include sincerely care ,help each other.No matter you are rich or poor ,healthy or disabled . Although I seldom contact with my friends ,when I remind of them ,I will text them or give a call . Telling them I miss you ,how are you ? It is no need for us often keeping in touch with each other,proving I care you.I consider the emotion of friendship should be pure rather than deceptive, which look like an arranged form.
@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
7 Dec 12
No man is an island, therefore I would say that friendships are important. We should be careful not to play with anyone's feelings and have respect for our friends.Friends should always be in our heart... how else can we call them friends?
• United States
7 Dec 12
Real friend is able to share not only the joys but also sorrows.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
There are different kinds of people around and we should be able to distinguish which ones are true and are worth taking for all times.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
7 Dec 12
I love making friends.. If they are true friends. I have met many great people here at mylot... Id love to be friends with them.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
7 Dec 12
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born." - Anais Nin Yes, we have different types of friendship. I don't make friends. Friends just come to me. We will just found out that we are starting to share intimate details about ourselves. I don't believe in making friends...it is somehow quite superficial but I strongly believe of finding friends. I can make 100 friends here, but just friends or acquaintances, but out of 100 friends here, I only so far found one. In fact we become good friends now. Sooner or later I can still find more, and more as time goes by. http://www.friendship.com.au/quotes/quofri.html
@betty1989 (751)
• China
7 Dec 12
My understanding about friendship is they can understand me and give me advice when I am wrong. It is OK to criticise for my good. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Frienship should be pure and donot pursue any commercial benefit from each other.