My friend forgets me
By wongchoiyee
@wongchoiyee (7413)
Malaysia
December 9, 2012 10:53am CST
This is my friend from high school, we broke up once and rekindled our friendship. A while ago, she stayed at my home because she run away from her home due to family problems, now she is on her own, renting a room nearby her working area. These days I always call her but she did not have anything to say to me, she only mentioned she is with her colleagues going out most of the time, I think why she treat me like that is I told her to moved out from my house last time. The reason is she dirty person, take her shoes inside my house, never take bath after work and very nagging until I can't sleep at night. I have say sorry to her, and I think she did not forget the incident yet. Is she forget me already?
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15 responses
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
9 Dec 12
How sad that your friend has forgotten them.
really bad.
but I can tell you that true friends do not forget even if you do not maintain relationships friendship is not easily forgotten so easy.
I wish you to find a new true friend who is always with you and you are very glad to hear, and we knew he was a true friend.
nice day!
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
9 Dec 12
I agree true friends never forget us. But to day its very difficult to find such friends.As people are just making friends for their work.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
9 Dec 12
completely true friend.
Nowadays people are trying to use.
and when you need them they just leave because they are not really very difficult.
I currently can not say that istniski friends thought I had but I'm not really in difficulty and which will help me.
nice day!
@dreamie_belle (94)
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
She may be cold to you now but I'm sure one day she'll realize about the relationship that you had before. Maybe she still has that pain for what had happened between you and her in the past but time heals all wounds, as they say. Just don't stop to try to reach out to her and make amends for whatever you did wrong to her before.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
12 Dec 12
If you told your friend why you asked her to move, and she did not change, you have nothing to apologize to her for.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
SOme people can really be sensitive and don't want logic. Didn't she realize that she's so shameful because she was like that , so you have to kick her out.
Well, it's not your loss if she don't like to be friends with you anymore. Anyway, you can still have other nice friends, friends who can truly be true friends through thick and thin.
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
She'll call you when she is in trouble and do not have other people who can help her. Looks like she is a friend who just want to exploit when she is trouble. Do not be too concerned with her attitude to you. It's supposed to be when she was living in your house she should follow the way of your life, and if you asked her to get out of your home that is your right. She must learn to respect others.
@irhadelgado (78)
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10 Dec 12
i don't think that the problem was on you.. what you did is just right. if you let your friend to move out from your house, he/she should not have a hard feelings for you.. your friend should understand your reason..
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
Don't feel bad.
True friends won't feel bad when we said something about their bad behavior.
True friends will always accept their fault or mistakes and will thank us for showing them their bad side.
You have done your part and now she's trying to avoid you- leave her and make her realize her mistake.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
Such people (I am not mentioning them as friend) are many in this society. I will not called them the friend but the opportunist who will come to you as friend (even you will consider them as your friend) only when they are in need or when they want some help may be Financially or other wise.
You friend is doing nothing but just giving you the excuses, she does not required your any help at present. But now she must be thinking that you may ask something from her that's the main reason may be she is trying to avoid you.
Best think is to forget such person and carry on your work. Keep in mind one day you will find better friend then her.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
9 Dec 12
That's really to sad about your friend not staying in contact with you. You asked her to leave? Maybe she felt betrayed and that you were asking her to leave because you didn't want her friendship anymore. Sometimes, we are unable to communicate the things we want to say or how we feel or we miss-communicate them. Could you call her or contact her and let her know that you still want to be her friend? Maybe the two of you could make plans to go out. Don't let her off the phone without making a committment of getting together for maybe a "girls' night out."
@rotloi2 (321)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 12
well, your friend did not do anything possibly hurt you right? . so, maybe the friendship remain but you have been thinking another way round. most probably like that she still remember that. friendship is not always summer and blossom right?
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
I guess it's not like that, Probably your friend just amazed the new environment and friends she has so just give her some time to think and to enjoy because after a while I know she will realized and she will going to miss you. Sometimes we need some space to give importance and to value what we have.Don't pressure by yourself by thinking too much.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
9 Dec 12
Sounds to me like she may have used you.. if I had got help like that from you, id call you ever day and thanks you. Thats just me. Take care there. happy holidays.
@Elenakat13 (425)
• United States
9 Dec 12
I think she didn't forgot you but she sure forgot what you've done for her!
It is your choice if you wonne still be friends with her after this
@chunxiao (66)
• China
10 Dec 12
I think the reason is that you asked her to move out of your house.Usually this kind behavior can hurt friends deeply.You can stand her position to consider this problem.She had family problems and she needed your help and care at that time.Although she had many bad habbits, you could corret her but not let her get out of your house.I think it is normal for her reaction.Anyway,hereI am not criticizing you and Ijust discuss this thing in an objective way.And she is angry because she still care about you.Just as you said that you used to rekindle the friendship with her.Now try it again.I believe you can restore the friendship.Just have a try.Good day.
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
9 Dec 12
Really sad that your friend forgot you. But she should maintain her elf when she is staying in others house .she should follow the rules of the house. she was wrong but i think she was not guilty of that instead she stopped contacting you. And that too she is good position now .We should be aware of such friends.
There are people who just use us until they get into good position.I have seen such people and already went through this.
All the best my friend. Just be your self .If she is not interested let her be. Such friends are real waste and a big loss for us if we be with them.
