Talking about the persons behind them

Ohh surekha, well said and i agree you should feel happy as they remember you. You are quiet intelligent and positive person..Frankly speaking i seriously never thought about this one. I am sure people will definitely talk behind me. But your discussion has given me a new thought to think about it from new point.

Hi, Whatever is being talked about you is fine good or bad at the back but you feel they are remembering you. For me i don't give attention to whoever says whatever (at least at the back of me)

In my opinion, talking about someone behind him/her is seriously not a good attitude. No matter if we talk about a good or bad thing about that person. Why don't we just be sincere and honest to someone and voice our what we have inside in front of him? Be brave to voice our what you feel. If we don't like what he/she did, just tell him if it's really concern us. If we like with the good thing he/she did, then just praise him in front of him. This means we are very honest and sincere person. But, if the matter is not concern to us, then why must we bother to talk about it? Mine our own business. Actually this attitude is not only in woman, but also with man. So funny that man also has talkative and like to busy body. But I agree that most woman has this attitude when they are in a group and it's not only with Indian woman, but all.

It depends on what they are saying behind my back. If they are only gossiping about me then I'll get annoyed. But if they are just telling my friends some updates about me, it's alright with me. I don't mind at all.

I am relatively certain that women are going to talk about other people no matter what. But I have also known men who were just as bad as the women about talking about other people! When I am with my sisters and one of them is missing my mom will ask what we did and we'll say that we talked about the sister who wasn't there!

I would be really feel bad if I hear people telling things behind my back. I try to do everything that I can do to make my life better and be a good mother to my kids and a good wife to my husband. And anything that is not within those things that I have stated will surely hear from me!

Hi dear, I really don’t aware that if anybody talks behind me. I don’t think I care all those things or worry about it. If I have any difference of opinion on anybody I tell it directly to the person. If we care about the person it will be better to say it directly, am I right dear? Those who keep on telling about others may not be confident on themselves. They want to hide their drawbacks by blaming others.

hi laughing woman it really depends on what I am told as it makes me feel good if they say kind things about me bu if its mean, I wo ld rather if they have any thing like that that they are sensitive enough to tell me to my face. I do resent mean things said about me behind my back as thats really cowardly to do. If I have an issue with anyone I will face them and try to work it out as I do not like to be mean to any one or have them be mean to me. I like' peace and happiness and to laugh occasionally myself.

Mostly women does it, they're talking about someone who is not around. That's bad as long as they are gossiping. It's normal to talk about the person who miss the event or is not around- thinking what maybe could be the reason why she's not there.

Hello, it is rule that if we want to critise any one, than we do it on the face and we want to praise any one than we do it on the back means back biting. If some one talk wrong thing about it will annoyed me.

I think its common to do such an act of gossiping behind the back of someone. At home or work. Everywhere, they say small minds talk about people, while big minds talk about ideas and knowledge. At work before, they were talking negatively behind my back and even worse talking about me on facebook even they don't mention my name on the wall. It is obvious they talk about me. It's disheartening to feel that they talk negatively about you and make fun of you even your not doing anything bad to them. I admit I talk about people from behind but not all the time

Hiii talkative women you are great think positive but I have no patience if anyone talking about me if I am not there but suddenly if heard then I will annoy on them and can say mind your own business. Dont talk about me and more. I not like this habit if they dont want to live with me or not like my friendship then can leave me but dont try to talk behind me.

Never understood why people like to do that. Im a honest person, I may talk about something to someone. But Ill also tell the person how it is. if someone does something I dont like, Ill tell them right out.

gossiping is a bad habit but I think if not all of us almost all of us are guilty of talking about a person behind him/her. but when people talk about me, i feel so popular to think that there are lots of people in the world but there they are, talking about my life, isn't that wonderful? don't be sad if people hate you because they do not really hate you for who you are, they hate you because you are the live portrait of what they want to become but the problem is they failed to be like you. the truth is haters and gossipers are secret admirers.

Its time to talk and care for them and also give some earning respect for them mutually for sure

Like you do, I do not mind also as long as I do not hear it and I do not have any idea that I am their topic. Besides, maybe they are talking behind my back because I am above them or I have something that is amazing or something different that they themselves do not have. I do not care about it as long as it will not harm me at all.

I've encountered some people like that. They are good in front of you and will stab you at your back. I really don't like that kind of attitude. I avoid people like that I can't get anything good from them. I'm also cautious of them for in time they will make gossip on you. Have a nice day!