Showing compliment to your partner/spouse
@jackiekathyrain (15)
Philippines
December 19, 2012 9:52am CST
Does it have to be give and take!?
... As for me, it does! Because as much as how you desire to anticipate compliments from your partner, he/she awaits a compliment from you too. A compliment that can add passion within your partner’s feeling that inspires them to be at their best always. A compliment is an act that we get from someone who shows admiration to our achievements in life, it is a simple appreciation to our good deeds we shared to them.
2 responses
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
4 Feb 13
No. Only give. Taking is a part of giving, I guess; but don't worry about how much you take.
In fact, you might even look at their giving as a sign that it's your turn to give what you can. That's an interpretation of Buddhism's Ho Ben Pon Dai Ni (a.k.a. The Teaching of Expedient Means ... roughly, that the Divine Sound guides you to obtain the powers & materials you need to fulfill your part of the Holy Kingdom---or something).
But always give--never expecting payback, so you won't be disappointed.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
19 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i do not know about the give and take policy in a relationship but i think in a relationship unless and until both the partners do not complement each other, the relationship is very difficult to last longer. One has to be critical of many things and should be patient at the same time also. As u said about compliment, every girl would like to hear compliments from her man and if she gets it on time with true heart and intention then i think the relationship should hardly see any bad light.
What say?
