How do you find true love?

@jricky1 (6809)
China
January 2, 2013 3:24am CST
Every girl wants to find a guy who really likes her and have a great relationship.So does that mean a guy who has no interests in you if he does not reply your email or give you calls?The movie he is not that into you really tells us a lot.
16 responses
@Arieles (2474)
• United States
2 Jan 13
True Love found me and then let me go. True Love couldn't decide if I was faithful or not. True Love must have found someone else too. I never did like the movie "He is just not that into you." I only seen it once, but once was enough.
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
2 Jan 13
I saw it two years ago and i was like i really hope that i can find that guy who knows me well and getting along well with each other.It seems that there are always someone disappointing us.So just let it go when it goes.lol
@Arieles (2474)
• United States
2 Jan 13
Oh, is that what you said?
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
At least that's what I thought too. If the guy could not put any effort to email, chat or call you then I guess he really isn't into you at all. And it is better I guess not to expect more. Treat the guy as someone who likes you but cannot be in a relationship with you. Or if you both are in a relationship but you could not feel his love, then I guess it is also best not to fall in love so much with him. Less expectation. Less pain.
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
and oh, I forgot to answer the question... We don't look for True love. True love comes... when we least expect it. I hope True love finds us soon.
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
2 Jan 13
It's so nice of you,enely.I will and i'll not expect too much therefore i took really less pain.Thanks and i got your point.And then i can having chances meeting the right person.Cheers.
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
No answer in the emails of the girl to boy? maybe because he's busy in something. maybe he did not see the email? there are other circumstances to think.
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
2 Jan 13
Well thanks for your reply and i have my own decision and know what i'm gonna do next.You enjoy your day and every single day is beautiful for people.
@Sureoi (176)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
You can't find true love. True love finds you. You can't say that, "This guy/lady is my true love..." who knows maybe one day you'll just break up. Just let time pass by and one day you'll realize that, true love has found you. Maybe that day would be your 26th wedding anniversary or so... heheh Have a nice day! :)
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
2 Jan 13
lol,you are right,true love finds people when they are ready.So we all have the rights and it's just we need time to find it.You,too.Have a nice day.
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
True love may come and go but we actually feel it. We know if someone don't like us but he best thing about it is the best feeling it brings to us. We never know when will it come again..
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
2 Jan 13
Yeah,we can never know when it comes again and how the god arranges it for us.So i will learn to calm down and waiting for the right one cuz we can't force it.
• India
2 Jan 13
True love is really a god gifted one. One can't find it. It is a feelings that can't be expressed. Sometimes we mistake it to understand. It's not within the limit of an email and it's far more beyond that. So Feel it.
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
2 Jan 13
You are right that can't be expressed.I totally get inspired that and it's far beyond the contact thing.So feeling that could really help what i'm now.Thanks a lot for share.
• China
2 Jan 13
True love is always within sight but beyond reach.But I think it is just the matter of time.We all can meet our true sooner or later. As the question you mention,I don't think so.Maybe he is busy with something or encouter some problems.He is not available.Try to ask him about it to avoid any misunderstandings.Good luck to you. Have a nice day.
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
2 Jan 13
Thanks for the advice and i think we are now just normal friend and i feel not easy coming to disturb him.So just let it go and we will find the right one though it takes time.You too and have a nice day,friend.
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
True love is easy to find but depending on the people who handled it. Love is mishandling that is why more broken heart still at large...
@farjun (135)
• Israel
4 Jan 13
men are very simple so stop thinking so hard.. if you like a guy tell him. give him signs.. noting will happen if youll ask him out and he says no i dont know about emails but how about a text? or a call?
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
If a person has interest in you, that person will do anything just to get in touch with you. If he doesn't call the day after you last dated, well, I think that is a clear sign.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
4 Jan 13
In this connection I would like to say, and surely those who will read this will agree also with me, that each girl must have found their love in the different way in the man that have come in their life. And surely they will have different experience also in this regards.
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
It’s really hard to decide whether at a struck, you are in love with somebody. The thing you need to do in order to determine if it is true love is to ask yourself, if he/she is the right person that you will share the rest of your life with. Ask yourself if you are really “compatible” with the person, and if you are really ready to take in responsibilities in terms of handling such relationship. Also, sometimes it’s just a mear sight affection, so try to dig deeper if there is really that “chemistry” over you and that person, rather than just a first impression to him or her. Know the person well, and know if he/she has the same interests as you do, and if that person understands you in a manner that you understand him/her. _
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
hello my friend! Don't find love. Let love finds you. It may not be the soonest possible time that you have been waiting but am pretty sure it will come, in the right time and in the place and of course with the right person perfect for you. ;-)
@mythociate (13827)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
2 Jan 13
This is just a guess, but it seems like you should get to know 'what he IS into' and get into it WITH him. But I could be wrong. Around here, it seems like 'marital bliss' is kind of a spare-time thing for people; and if you focus 'too much attention' on it (which is 'any more of your own personal attention than the person you're interested-in is paying), you turn out to be a creep.
@gelomon (286)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
for me, you cannot find love as love will haunt you. Sorry if it sounds awkward when i say haunt. Hahaha i know that love really comes into our ways that even if you say that you will not fall inlove you will if it is there. And you cant stop it when you really fall.
• China
2 Jan 13
It is hard to say, pal. 'cause every one has his or her own way of finding true love. my means may not work for you. Moreover, I have not found my Mrs Right yet. Despite my hot relationship with a girl, I am not sure whether she is the one or not. The movie you mentioned is new to me. Maybe I will watch it someday. Have a nice day!