I qurraled to my husband because of the morning laziness.

China
January 3, 2013 3:22am CST
I woke up at around 9am,after I had breakfask I asked my husband to wake up so that I could clean the room.But half an hour later,there was no respond from him,I called him again,and he did not reply,either.I got angry and went out of my room.I went shopping in the supermarket,and came home nearly at 12am.My husband was brushing his teeth when I got home,I could not help quarrling with him,so we had a big fight,I did not cook the lunch.But he cooked in the end.I came into my bedroom right after lunch,and slept till now,it is 5pm.I woke up by the noise of shut of the door.It was my husband shopping back,and he is cooking dinner now,is this the way he is showing apology?
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
3 Jan 13
Laziness? Being able to sleep till 9am is already luxury. Most people over here are awake between 6-7am! So you went shopping and went back to bed again??? And he went shopping also??? It sounds to me that both of you have a different life style or bioritme. You better make some rules about when to wake up, go to sleep, who cleans what when, is doing the shopping, cleaning etc. This way you don't need to fight about nothing. No this is not his to apologize, he is just hungry and able to cook himself. He will stay the one he is and doesn't understand what your problem is. Neither do I.
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• China
3 Jan 13
We decided to clean the room together ,but he didn't.I left with angry and went to supermarket to stay away from cold.
• China
3 Jan 13
Wow,it seems that you two wasted a whole day,the last day of holiday,right?That's a piece of cake.Maybe he wanted to have a break during the holiday so he stayed in bed especially in a cold morning.You should talk it over and try to set up the schedule in advance next time.Be nice to each other,so do you patch thing up now?
• China
3 Jan 13
We are all right now.After that we had a good talk,and things are going well between us.
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
3 Jan 13
I do not like get up early in the morning, especially in the cold winter. So now I try to stay as long as I can in the bed, but I have to get up to earn some money. In the weekends and holidays, I will stay in bed until 10. I do not like get up when it is still dark outside. So I usually can not get up early in winter, but in summer it seems not a big problem.
• China
3 Jan 13
Ok,maybe today I was overwhelmed,but we are harmonious now.