Tell me the RED Flags of a Long Distance Relationships

Philippines
January 3, 2013 6:54pm CST
I had two broken LDR in the past few years. My first fiance was a Canadian. At first everything seemed so wonderful and heavenly amazed but after two years he suddenly changed... I kept sending him messages on his emails and no response from him for few months. I just leave him alone. After a year, I learned about Myspace.com so I've tried to check him on there... and boom! I saw him with a woman, actually his arms wrapped around her. When facebook became popular he saw me and added me and there I saw him with her, just got married. Wow! without even saying goodbye to me??? My second fiance was an American. We had so much plans for the future and all of a sudden he changed his passwords of his two accounts he gave me. After that very day, he broke up with me, then after two days he get back on me. I'm getting confused at that moment. Later on, he admitted that he had been dating a woman he met in a hospital. So my instinct was right. Before New Year, I initiated the separation because I had learned that he removed me from his skype account while all his reason was he send his laptop to shop to be fixed. Wow! such a liar! so tell the red flags if you have any. Does long distance relationships works?
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@Lucas818 (378)
4 Jan 13
I think long distance relationship is very challenging. Communication among two parties is the most crucial factor. Communications build trust, bridging a healthy relationship. Problems will occur when we lack of communications, and lead to a bad endings.
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
Yeah, I agree with you IF we are having a relationship with the RIGHT one. Cheating mostly occur when the other one is not patient enough to deal with distances.