No friend.

Philippines
January 26, 2013 9:54am CST
I'm starting to think people are being weirded out of me and that's why I have no friends. It's so hard to make friends when your interest is not in your age group. My main interest is anime and Asian music and it is so hard to find like-minded people.
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@maezee (33011)
• United States
26 Jan 13
There has to be someone out there who enjoys the same thing as you do. I often have this trouble with my current friends. My idea of "fun" is going out for a few drinks and most of my friends are too laid back to that and therefore when we hang out, we usually just HANG OUT at someone's house and do nothing. It bores me sometimes, even though I enjoy seeing them, I wish they enjoyed the night life like I do! It kinda sucks, but what do you do? I try to find other things that we have in common to do together - like we will go shopping or volunteer or get coffee to catch up. Maybe you need to find a group of friends or club of some sort to join to do this hobby with, but also make sure you still see your friends who don't enjoy it....
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• Philippines
27 Jan 13
i see. so you may still hang out with people who do not have the same interests as you? sometimes i find it hard to hang out with people i do not share any interests with, but i guess i can try.
• Philippines
30 Jan 13
dont think that you dont have any friend. try to be in. being friendly is not measures in fashion, or in style. but it is for kindness Life they say is touch and go. some people you know may only be there for sometime. some may go away, but people find you special will always find ways to stay. dont be sad. have a good day with a big smile =D
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
30 Jan 13
Well, we can be friends if you want. I am weird and also into anime. As for asian music, not so but I do love their creativity. Don't feel so alone, there are tons of people like you in this world longing for a place to fit in. I wonder why people would be weirded out because of you?
@agrim94 (3811)
• India
27 Jan 13
Hi bunnystar, Not everyone is going to share your passion nor can you share everyone else passion. This doesn't mean you can not be friends with people who do not share your interests. Friendship is an interest in itself and you can talk, laugh with countless people who share your interest but they are not friends because friends are those who are for you when you need them. My best friend and I , hardly have common interest but we are still best friends and there for each other when needed.
• India
26 Jan 13
If you will try to find the friends with taking certain parameters in mind then it will become difficult for you to make any friend because mostly persons are different from one another in their taste. So it will be difficult to find a person with all the qualities you like. And who says that persons with different tastes can't be friends. Look at the other side if you make a friend of different interests then that person will also be adjusting to your interests so in return you also have to adjust yourself.
@jugsjugs (13045)
26 Jan 13
I have learnt in the past that people that class you as their friend can end up being your worst enemy, as in they end up stabbing you in the back or worse you find out that you can not trust them. I have friends that have nothing in common with me other than we have children and I will say it can be hard to keep a conversation going.
@airasheila (5458)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
hi there bunnystarr, sometimes you need not to be the same to other people to gain friends. remember, same pole repels and unlike pole attracts. meaning, if you are destined to be friends with that person, then the perfect time will come that you will be friend with that person. i mean, you need not to be the same at all in your likes to befriend to someone. as far as i know if you know how to carry yourself then you can make friends to others without any hesitation at all.
@Shavkat (65157)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
It is really hard to find friends like being with the same like. I do have friends but they are all opposite of what I like. I am sure you can find someone out there that will share the same interest with you.