Complicated love

January 28, 2013 1:48am CST
I have best friend, she is good, beautiful and intelligent. Off daily life, she has always taken care of me. Until I feel that she loves me. And indeed, it turns out she loves me. This make me flattered, and happy. Because i love her too. But there is something uncomfortable about my heart, we are of different religions. I can not accept a girl from different religion in my life ....
6 responses
@toyota4k (1212)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
"Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness? Or what harmony has Christ with Belial, or what has a believer in common with an unbeliever? Or what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; just as God said, 'I will dwell in them and walk among them; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people. Therefore, come out from their midst and be separate,' says the Lord. 'And do not touch what is unclean; And I will welcome you. And I will be a Father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to Me,' Says the Lord Almighty." (2 Corinthians 6:14-18). Now, who have idols in their churches and,.... What is an idol that we should not make and adore?? "You shall not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below.Exodus 20:4
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
Well, not accepting someone because they are of different religion... that is quite narrow minded. My boyfriend is a mormon and I am a catholic, we are already 5 years in our relationship and our difference in religion has never been a problem between us. We are happy together.
@sishy7 (27606)
• Australia
28 Jan 13
Well, if you two are meant to be together, then you will find a way somehow; perhaps even become one in religion.
28 Jan 13
What religion do you believe? I don't think religion should separate lovers. Even Romeo can fall in love with Juliet. Why can't you? Just follow you heart and feeling.
@Archie0 (4669)
28 Jan 13
I don't understand. You say you love her too and then you say you can't love a girl of different religion? Well as per my thoughts, if you love someone you just love them. You don't go to see what they are, which religion or caste they are. How they look or behave. You just love, love never has a second thought. Well i think if you cannot accept a girl with another religion, it is best for you to be only friends to her and walk ahead for this relationship. I am sure you will find another good girl of your same religion. But staying in this relationship and then breaking apart later on might be heart breaking until you both have a mutual breakup understanding. Welcome to Mylot!
@jalucia (1435)
• United States
28 Jan 13
Well, is this your best friend or a possible future girlfriend? You can't be friends with her because of her religion or you can't be her boyfriend because of her religion? IDK, if she is your best friend, maybe you should have a heart to heart discussion with her about your concerns. You may find that you are more alike in your beliefs than you think.