sometimes his being careless makes me mad
February 7, 2013 2:08am CST
We sometimes are out of sight. It's okay to be careless but not at all. I supposed to go to church today this afternoon. but since it's hot and I want to save money for the transportation.So I decided to go to church in the evening schedule which is evening so that instead of riding in a vehicle I can walk going to church I am doing this not only a form of exercise for me but I am on a tight budget so I need to sacrifice. SO I told this guy to withdraw to ATM a certain amount to other bank ATM near our place. but what he did. instead of withdrawing the amount he withdraw the usual amount and then when he see there is still balance then he withdraw it again. HE made a withdraw twice at the same time so it's twice have been deducted with that atm. and he doesn't even care with it wasting a money for nothing.so why do i get mad is that I do make a thing to save money but he, he doesn't even care . It's ok if he bought food,or gave it to the beggars or bought some staff at least he benefit but withdrawing twice being deducted twice NO one benefit from it. it is like that money was just throwing to trash can.that's how i get mad. if I only know he would do that it's better I ride in the transportation and stop on the bank since my bank is near our church if I withdraw there there will be no deduction.HE doesn't care either.
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8 Feb 13
i am sorry that you had your atm withdrawn with twice, i was wondering though why or have you asked him why he did that? maybe he was thinking of using the money for something? I can understand you saving money and all, you can just ask the money back from him and put it back right in.
7 Feb 13
I find it kind of hard to understand what happened if it comes to the ATM. Over here it doesn't matter which ATM you use, you can get money out of it from your account without any fee. If it's an ATM not from your bank you are not able to ask for the amount on your account and only can get a certain (max) amount out of it. I assume ""he" is the bank employee? If he (the bank) made a mistake they have to fix it and can't charge you for it. I do understand it's annoying if you try to save and accounts are mixed up. I try to keep my saving account separate too, no bill will be payed from that one, otherwise it's the end of my hard trying. I hope this problem will be solved in a proper way. BTW I believe you are right if it comes to "he doesn't care". People seldom care unless they are involved themselves.
7 Feb 13
Some people are careless in spending money if it's not their own money. They know that the money will be wasted but won't care since it's not them who worked hard for it. Just like my sisters before, they'd ask me to buy this buy that and when I disagree they would argue with me that it's just money..duh!! so easy for them to say. Now that they know how hard it is to earn money, they even won't buy something for me.
7 Feb 13
Some people really don't care of wasting money. Saving money, even a little amount only, matters to us especially when we are budgetting our money wisely. You should tell him your point and why you are angry so that he won't do it again next time. Money is really hard to earn so let's spend money wisely. I also walk to save money. Don't get angry for too long. Relax. Smile.
7 Feb 13
You have nothing to get angry at it was your choice, you should not trust your ATM to somebody. You will be going to church and near the church is the ATM of your bank, you should have save from your savings. It is but natural if the person is not concern for it was you, who did the budgeting then for him is take always the easiest way.
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7 Feb 13
when I give my man my card he can only go to the bank to take out cash. he used my card twice at an atm before and I made him pay me the $8 bucks he cost me out of my darn account and after that he knew he could only go to the bank. see he goes to atms all the time with his card. I tell him I don't have a dollar to spend in fees. when my daughter got her lawsuit over a grand in atm fees. I kept telling her to go to the bank. when she got down to her last ten thousand then she started to care about the money she was not getting back again.