Is Being Single Always A Fun...?

• Estado De Mexico, Mexico

16 Feb 16

Thank you Amy for your comment. I always believe that there is a time for everyone to meet the better half. No matter how much you try , unless the tme comes, you cannot do anything. In my case is the same, I´m 31 and still single, Out of India since 3 years and have worked in different countries and now in Mexico and still single, LOL. Hard to believe , isn´t it ?

Kristen Howe

@KristenH (33363)

• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio

16 Feb 16

I believe my time is up to find Mr. Right at my age. I'll be single all my life. But beautiful poem.

• Estado De Mexico, Mexico

16 Feb 16

Thank you Kristen for your comment. I always believe that there is a time for everyone to meet the better half. No matter how much you try , unless the tme comes, you cannot do anything. In my case is the same, I´m 31 and still single, Out of India since 3 years and have worked in different countries and now in Mexico and still single, LOL. Hard to believe , isn´t it ? Would be honoured to know more about you if I may .

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• Estado De Mexico, Mexico

16 Feb 16

@KristenH Thank you Kristen for your reply. I´ll be 32 this May.. It´s on 5th of May. Why , what happened in your department of Romance ? I can send some Cupids to you to hunt a nice person for you. :)

Kristen Howe

@KristenH (33363)

• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio

16 Feb 16

@rajendraingale My pleasure. I'll be 40 this May. I hope you're right. But I've had no luck in the romance department for a long time.

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sid556

@sid556 (30960)

• United States

10 Feb 13

I love being single. Sure I have days that are not so fun but so do married couples. And the not so fun days are not a result of being single. I had more un-fun days when I was married than I have being single.

• Estado De Mexico, Mexico

10 Feb 13

hello sid, When you are married,you would definitely want to be single again and live a bachelor life again,as you have seen married life,you know and you are aware of the responsibilities,but when you are single,you don't have to worry about most of the thing's. For example,when you are in school,you want to go back to your senior and junior kindergarten,when you are in college,you want to go back to school and so on so forth.Its really good to know that you are really enjoying your married life,and you are happy as well. Wish you the same always. Best wishes raj

sid556

@sid556 (30960)

• United States

10 Feb 13

Oh that is not true at all,Raj. I am a woman and a mom of 4 girls. They are all grown now and I raised them on my own for the most part. I almost never got child support and I worked hard to raise them. They are all grown and all very responsible women now. So your theory on less responsibility and all does not apply to everyone. It is not like I left marriage to have some carefree single life that you arei portraying. Still I did and do very much enjoy being single. I do date but have no desire to marry or live with a man. I love my life. In saying this, I also want to make it clear that I also enjoyed being married until the marriage went sour. I have no regrets and no harsh thoughts against marriage. I just am ok and happy with my life as it is now.

• Estado De Mexico, Mexico

11 Feb 13

hello sid, I am happy to read from you again,And I hope you are taking care of yourself.I am glad to know that you have taken care of your responsibilities and even though you never got a support in raising your kid's,you still did the best for them.I am sorry but i considered you a man and then wrote it,And I totally agree with you that my theory of responsibility does not apply to every one,As you know all fingers are not the same. I am sorry but being single I Meant that having a boyfriend or girlfriend or just being single.I did not even considered married life and breakups. At the same time,its really sad to know what had happened with you married life,But whatever decision you have taken,I am sure you must have thought for it deeply and then taken this decision.I can't imagine ,what you might have gone through to take this decision and getting seperated with the person you got married,Its really tough,isn't it.? As your daughter's are well settled and I guess they might have got married by now,I wish them a happy married life and lots of love in their life. You have truly proved to be a best mother,Hat's off to you ..And would be honored if we could be friends,so that we could share more such discussion. Wish you lot's of happiness in your life. Take care Raj

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Curlann

@annierose (19289)

• Philippines

10 Feb 13

I have been single for quite some times now. Sometimes I feel unhappy especially if I see lovers before me who are sweet with each other while I am alone walking down the street with no one to hold hands with.I cannot avoid the feelings so I can say that it is not always fun. As of now, I just focus on my family and friends. I also devote my time reading the bible as much as possible after I woke up and before I go to sleep.It gives me a feeling of happiness. Spending time with my job and studies makes me busy. I also have good friends who make me smile and help me through hard times in my life.

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• Estado De Mexico, Mexico

10 Feb 13

hi there, Well its really a nice way to keep yourself occupied and not to think about love,But love is something which comes into your life somehow,You will find find love every where.You know ,love is like the wind,which is always around you,you just have to feel it.If you think,its just air or its more than peace of mind. I really wonder,how you have been single,isn't it tough to be single,looking at couples hanging around and sharing their feeling and love,doesn't it makes you feel ,there should be someone who would just hold my hand and say "I am with you always,forever",That feeling is itself everything for you,isn't it..? wish you should get your soul mate soon, take care raj

redredrose

@redredrose (1105)

• United States

10 Feb 13

For some it is fun to be single and do whatever you want, but for others it can be lonely and no fun at all. Just depends on the person and if they want to be with someone.yes there would be no worries if you are single because you don't have to worry about what someone else thinks or says and you don't have to worry about anyone, but then again it can be very depressing and lonely and boring to be single. i didn't always mind being single except for when i was lonely or needed someone to talk to or saw others in love together. So it just depends on the person and if they like being single or not. I have been married 13 yrs and i find it much better than being single but that's just me.

• Estado De Mexico, Mexico

11 Feb 13

hello rose, I hope you are doing fine, Well,I agree with you that it depends upon person to person,and also the way they think about it.There might be some people who prefer to stay single just because they don't want to take any responsibilities and any kind of interference in their life. And their are times when a single boy or a girl wants someone ,so that they can share their feeling with them.But to be frank rose ,I don't think that being single is boring,I am 28,single guy,out of my country for job purpose,no girlfriend,But i never felt boring,Because it gives me happiness when I look at a couple and they are so happy together,Walking together holding each others hands.yeah at times you feel like there should be someone for you looking at a couple,But when I realize that I don't have one,I say to myself that god is still busy writing my love story and its not yet finished from his end,once its done,the very next moment I will get my soul mate. After being single you got married,so you are spending you love and married life together,that really good to know.And I wish you the same. Take care raj

prettysexybrainy

@prettysexybrainy (189)

• Philippines

11 Feb 13

I guess it depend to who you with. there are some boyfriends, who dont bother if their gf go with their friends having fun. I guess those kind of boyfriends are more mature and want their gf to be happy too. On the other hand, there are these boyfriends, whoa re so insecure that they take your freedom out from you, which is not good.

prettysexybrainy

@prettysexybrainy (189)

• Philippines

11 Feb 13

I dnt like the idea being single. ahhaa. We need to share our love. If one relationship fail it doesn't mean you need to stop loving. I take every failure as a lesson learned and , do better the next time around. I am loving every relationship i had makes me who am i as a lover now. Don't stop believing in Love. There is somebody for someone. However, if you are happy being single. Sure why not. As long as you are happy alone. lol Friends are not forever be with you, they will go get their own life too. My greatest dream is to have my own happy family.

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• Estado De Mexico, Mexico

13 Feb 13

hello there, the way you think is very different from others and i agree with what you have to say,I don't understand why they say that you fall in love once in a life time,might be at that moment you just go on the looks.How would you cope up with the person later, who is good in looks but not by heart. And i do believe that love does not happen once in life,otherwise extra marital affair wouldn't have existed.

youless

@youless (112140)

• Guangzhou, China

11 Feb 13

I think being single has its advantages and disadvantages. As to the females, perhaps it will be very stressful. Because women are usually much more emotional and they will feel sad when they see others have a family. Although there can be some problems in the marriage life, however, it makes the life completed since you are married and have your child. Being single can be very depressing especially in some holidays. And nobody will share your sadness and happiness. You are very alone.

kourdapya

@kourdapya (924)

• Philippines

13 Feb 13

I'm happily married but I know single people who are happy. I thought I was going to become single for life, but I was wrong. Maybe I'm destined for marriage. If you are destined to be single, then there's nothing wrong with it. I believe that we have the right to live a wonderful life whether alone or with someone. Whatever you choose, you just have to live the most of your life. Having choices is one of our prerogatives in life so go ahead and enjoy your life as it is!

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Raine38

@Raine38 (12257)

• United States

10 Feb 13

I have been single for a long time, but I have gotten married and have been for a couple of years now. As per my experience, being single have its ups and downs, pretty much the same as being married. Nothing's perfect, and marriage isn't for everyone, just like singleness. I think we just have to make the most out of the current status of our relationship because we are not really certain what the future holds for us.

asokavaradhana

@asokavaradhana (257)

• India

10 Feb 13

Well,being single has its own pros and cons.From finance perspective, you need to just see for yourself.There is more earning potential and there are many risks that can be undertaken.From personality perspective, there are lot of freedom.You can make lot of choices and there are less restrictions.But then there is another con in this.You might not get an emotional support apart from your family and friend.The love you mentioned could make disturbance if one is not settled.Sometimes that emotional touch defines one's life and things one can achieve in one's life.Its is not always material and things like that.There is life beyond those things as well.Personally, i do agree that there is no fun being single for a long period of time.Worse at times, it could be a burden in life,sometimes for the person and sometimes for his/her family as well.It just would be tough on a person in a society and animal kingdom where family is a concept for everything.Well,i liked you r final thought.Even if you never like or liked someone, let someone like you.That is a good thought.Appreciate things you mentioned in the discussion.Thanks!

Nursefrai06

@Nursefrai06 (2498)

• Penrith, Australia

11 Feb 13

I wont say that being single is always fun. Nothing is perfect and the grass will always look greener on the other side. Although being single has a lot of perks. I am quite sure that everyone wants to be in a relationship but no one wants to give up their single ways. Think about it, if you're single, you only have to think about yourself and not consider anybody else's decisions and you don't have to tie yourself up and compromise for another person. You can enjoy your friends, and life will always be an open book. When you're single, you can decide exactly how you want to do things. The possibilities for you and you alone, is endless. You get the opportunity to go out on dates with other people, get to know them and get to know yourself too. And the best part, you can focus on your career. You can manage your own money, get your own place to live and everything. Knowing that we can rely entirely on ourselves , that we can make our careers the way we want them to be makes entering into any relationship just that much better. We can secure ourselves financially and professionally, and when we take our time to make our career dreams come true, it is an investment that will pay off for the rest of our lives.

extremefun4fun

@extremefun4fun (2908)

• India

26 Mar 13

I am agree with you. It is really good to be single and live freely but to have somebody who loves you. it will be full of fun and joy then.... thanks