puzzled
By yrallih
@yrallih (147)
February 14, 2013 2:55am CST
How would you feel if your friend's ex boyfriend is now your boyfriend? Is it wrong to be together with him even if they just recently broke up? Even if it was the girl's fault that he cheated on him and he ended up liking you because you were always there for him.
3 responses
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
14 Feb 13
I don't see anything wrong with that, except for the timing. For me, it is not looking too good if they have just broken up and now we're together. I mean of course if I am the girl's friend, there would be times that she would confide in me about her problems with her ex boyfriend. wouldn't it be too awkward to see that in a short time following their split, I am now dating him? Well, that's just me and my opinion. I think timing is the key. Just give it a bit of time for things to settle down and be back to normal. Then of course I will ask my friend how she feels about me going out with her ex. Just a little courtesy that I want my friend to also bestow on me should the situation be reversed.
@yrallih (147)
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15 Feb 13
thank you. this is actually what's been going on. the girl's friend is the one whom she confides problems with regards to her ex bf and ended up that the girl is now together with the ex but it's kinda hard to refuse such a nice guy though. but i do agree with you that it's a sign of courtesy.
@dianon_ice14 (461)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
I see nothing wring on that as long as you stayed honest to your FRIEND... I think she deserve to know the truth but it doesn't mean that your desicion will depend on her.
