how much he loves you?

Philippines
February 17, 2013 9:09am CST
as husband and wife we always fight on small issues as a women we always answer as if were lawyers that know everything...must never loose a battled conversation,my husband is not a good speaker even though we always fight on small things most of the time I accidentally hurt his felling he will still find a way to make me fell that despite of everything he still and always love me..how about you? tell me your story.
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@chikapet (47)
18 Feb 13
My partner and I hardly fight, but those first moments just after we had met, i never imagined that we would ever get along, he was so hot tempered. We would fight over very trivial matters.Even though sometimes i get angry sometimes i am the kind of person who is not confrontational.I think we became used to each other over the years.
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• Philippines
18 Feb 13
I just got married last year of May. We always have fights every now and then. We fight just because of petty things. Although we are not like other couple who shout at each other but still we argue. The nice thing about my husband is that, when I eventually cried he will then say sorry and console me.
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@Raine38 (9195)
• United States
18 Feb 13
Me and my husband fight over the silliest things that I can think of, but the way that we are going on and on about it, one would think that we have a major issue going on in our marriage, like trust issues. For example, we would argue about the wrong mattress thickness. He would say hurtful words, and I will equally match him word for word. But that doesn't mean that we no longer love each other, or he loves me less. Despite our arguments, I still go to bed with the same man that I have married 2 years ago.
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• Philippines
18 Feb 13
haha,, Well on this case,,, we are opposite.. Evrytime me and my bf fights he is the most dominant like we is noisy and he is the first one who will start a fight. I think it his nature, he is very hot tempered and even the simpliest thing he gets mad easily and start yelling or talking. I am the quiet type and I just let him talk and talk and talk but if she is too much already that is when I fight back and that's the time we start aa very HUGE fight. BUT normally, he is the always the first person to say SORRY and wants to make out with me because maybe he knows for a fact that most of the time it is his fault,,, haha,,, so I compliment on him on that part because he knows how to admit his faults. It's tiring but if you think twice it is really needed too. Imagine your life without fighting isn't it too boring??? haha The best part is how intimate you become after a lng fight =),, right?? and also,,, every misunderstanding it is important to FORGIVE and MOVE ON and FORGET,,,,
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@lelin1123 (15644)
• Puerto Rico
28 Feb 13
I have to say we don't really fight we may argue on somethings that are so small that we don't ever stay mad at each other. If we are mad at each other for 5 minutes that is a lot. The argument happens and then its all over. We are so good in that respect. We have never gone to bed mad at each other and we just don't allow arguments to interfere with our lives because we know its just not worth it. My parents who have been together for now 57 years have lived most of their lives fighting and I can never see myself living like this. I tell my parents one day one of you will not be around and then you are going to wish for the days, weeks or months where you didn't talk to each other all due to a fight. Life is just way to short to be fighting over the little stuff. You have to truly love and respect each other and don't sweat the small stuff.
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• India
28 Feb 13
Good to hear about your story. We both have a good under standing and don't give importance to little issues. We too have silly fights but don't care about it.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
23 Feb 13
Husband and wife always fight on small issues . Most of the time I am also hurt his feelings . He also hurt me with words .
@Hatley (164506)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 13
hi madonna I and my hubby talked over things instead of just fithing and we did compromise with each other.We were best friends as well as lovers and best friends find ways to resolve disagreements and keep their friendship and their love.