She is still just as immature and irresponsible
February 20, 2013 8:19pm CST
I bumped into this girl at Walmart, this girl I went to high school with she moved north for about 4 years, then moved back. She has been dating this guy since late October, and is pregnent (3 months). She noticed me, but talking to her for 15 minutes just shows how she hasn't grown up one bit. Her mother is buying all her baby supplies, she goes I don't need a job no point now (well she wont be collecting matunity leave, so I imagine welfare it is). Her boyfriend is just as immature, he was buying 6 dvds he wanted and just shrug it off, that they are moving place to place, and have no future for their child. If I saw her in a store I would think she was 15, by the way she acts. All she talked about was how we were all going to get together, and get drunk when she got home, but now she's pregnent. All she did was whine about being pregnent, then about how she wants this child so badly. All I could think of was this poor poor child. She then goes my sister owes me $70, and was whining like a 5 year old. It's one thing to see what she posts on Facebook, but hearing her talking, and act just proove it. She then goes well my doctor said I can't have babies, but here I am. She goes I asked to get a hysterectomy, and why I have a monthly period, if I cant have kids. I stood there, most times everything will stop and you wont have a period, or very little not a routine monthly one on time. I asked why he said that, and she goes I don't have any health problems, so obviously either she;s just that stupid, or her doctor said something and she assumed. She has never been on birth control, or used protection, so I feel no pity.
• United States
23 Feb 13
Actually, I have to say that I do feel some pity, but I have to say that the pity that I feel isn't for this immature woman, but rather for the poor child that is going to have to grow up in that kind of a screwed up situation. I mean there have been a lot of people that have been told that they cannot have children for whatever reason because of the fact that they have some problems with their uterus or whatever and they do eventually end up pregnant. In fact, I am one of those people that is the child of one such woman.
• Carlisle, England
21 Feb 13
As the Specials song goes, 'Haven't you heard of CONTRACEPTION!' lol. I'd be tempted to sing it to her, especially since pregnancy is obviously such a bind for her and her bloke. One of my past friends got pregnant when she was about 18 and she had slept around A LOT (usually my exes but that's another story) and, when asked at work who the father was, she replied, 'I dunno!' and laughed. Apparently, she's now engaged to Neil the plumber and has been for 6 years. He is very unlikely to be the father as her boy who will now be in his 20s but if her man has any sense he'd pack her in. Even now she says she 'loves having fun.' Mmm, we all know what her type of fun means and I hope to God she hasn't any female friends with boyfriends!