TODAY ... ............. is today.
By Mavic123456
@Mavic123456 (21898)
Thailand
February 21, 2013 6:20pm CST
Among my siblings, I am the one who possess the strongest. I am the most talented one (my sisters will disagree for sure) . I am the smartest (ehemmm... my brother will oppose this time. I am the strongest yes. yes.. the strongest. (at least to my belief)
Being single at this age.. ( should I reveal my age? ) yeah okay fine.. mid 40s. I thought... would there be a good life if I got married? Is there someone for me, or should I be rocking my chair alone 25 years from now. I am living alone in a strange land, I feel like I am an alien in disguise, couldn't understand people (but they are so delighted every time they see me).
I thought how important is companionship? I thought is it really important to have someone beside a person? Is it important to have having someone to exchange "good mornings", "how was your day?" and "good nights" ? Yes the answer is YES. Doesn't really matter if the person is romantically someone.. it could be someone that will be there beside you when you need someone to talk to.
Some people have cats or dogs, fish or lizards to talk with in their solidarity...but still different when it is from a person warmth.
Yes.... it is nice to be around with family and friends, no matter how irritating and annoying they are. They are humans, they are warm and they breathe.
Good morning world... Reflection I did today.... Yes, I am strong but I need someone to hold my hand and say "everything is fine"
Now... while you are the comforts of your home with your family.. a HUG will mean a lot to tell them that.. 'EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE FINE"
Great day to everyone.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
17 Nov 18
@Mavic123456 Beautiful photo of you by the way!
And yes I agree with you. I personally believe no matter how strong or independent you are, people still like to have someone by their side or someone to check in on them every now and then. And it's a lovely feeling when you find someone like that to have in your life.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
18 Nov 18
@VivaLaDani13 ahhhh ok... consider that massage course is really a physical job, eh. you know a "contact to person" job. anyway, ok. good luck. you will find a job for sure.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
17 Nov 18
thanks... I still have a long hair there. lol
ahh yeah it is nice to have someone to have in our life.
btw, so how's your studies now? have you made up your mind?
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
17 Nov 18
@Mavic123456 Hey! Well I am still thinking a massage course but mostly working on getting a job. I had an appointment yesterday and I just need to look for hotels near me that I wouldn't mind working at, and give them to the woman on my next appointment. And she will ring them up to see if there is anything available for me to hopefully get a job.
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
Very nice reflection of your life. As they say no man is an island is what beat describes you at the moment. As for the the partner you want I cannot answer for that one but the universe may have something in store for you. You have manifested your desire keep asking and maybe it may be granted to you.
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@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
@Mavic123456 Oh I see the universe did hear you’re pleads and your happy with the results.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
20 Nov 18
ohh I wrote this several years ago. Now I have a partner in life and he is very loving. Thanks for your concern. I appreciate this.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
21 Nov 18
@rsa101 God is good, God is great! Isn't he? I always believe in "everything has a reason"
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Feb 13
One should take some lessons from yourself about how to be self confident and appreciate oneself.
It is good to hear that you are strong and you could weather any storm. However, you still want to live with a partner with whom you could share your joys and sorrows. Here is the catch - the moment you desire that you want to live with a partner, it shows that one part of your mind thinks about insecurity which may happen at later date. Your family members would be warm and caring but when they would get married (one by one, if not already married) they would get busy in their own families and their attention towards you will automatically get reduced.
It would be better to search for a suitable partner for your future, it is my opinion. You are free to take a call on it.
It is good to hear that you are strong and you could weather any storm. However, you still want to live with a partner with whom you could share your joys and sorrows. Here is the catch - the moment you desire that you want to live with a partner, it shows that one part of your mind thinks about insecurity which may happen at later date. Your family members would be warm and caring but when they would get married (one by one, if not already married) they would get busy in their own families and their attention towards you will automatically get reduced.
It would be better to search for a suitable partner for your future, it is my opinion. You are free to take a call on it.@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
23 Feb 13
That confidence and appreciation is "mood" phase. I am a human being, so I have limitations and weaknesses.
I am quite a late bloomer, I don't know maybe because when I was a menopausal baby... 10th in the siblings. so late, I still play in the street even if I was graduating from high school. Never put eyeliner and lipsheener (lipgloss) while my other classmates did... so.. maybe .. maybe not.
I have been searching, for long, high and low, far and near sometimes even other the rock. but I couldn't find this "partner". not at all
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Feb 13
Hello, Mavic12345! Such beautiful post!
Our happiness really should not be dependent on the existence of others. Being single at your age, I assume was your choice. But I do agree that we need someone by our side when we grow old. Someone who will take care of us and someone who will give you strength to face the world day by day. And I agree with you, that person doesn't have to be someone you get to be romantically involved with. But somehow, knowing that you are not alone to keep you safe and would somehow breathe life into you.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
26 Feb 13
Thanks Jenny. yes not necessarily romantically, but even just human of same race interaction. thanks
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
23 Feb 13
oh why???? ok I will dry your tears now... sorry to make you cry
@danix1982 (593)
• Philippines
22 Feb 13
everything happens for a reason, God always has a plan for us. maybe he has a best plan for you. maybe there's a reason why your single, just look around and analyze my dear and you will find the answer. don't be sad for being alone remember not all family are happy, not all couples are happy.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
23 Feb 13
yup I believe so too. I am not longing for romantic companionship this was just a thought on a rainy day. I am not sad... it is just I am alone.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
22 Feb 13
I think its important for everyone to have someone to live with whether romantic or not. I think its a very lonely life if you live alone especially when you get elderly. I believe life is better sharing it with someone then being alone when you awake or go to sleep at night. You can be very independent and strong but everyone needs someone at some point in their lives. I tell my hubby everyday how much I love him with a kiss and a hug. Hugs and kisses is what makes the world go around. Hugs to you!
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
23 Feb 13
yes.. thanks for the hug lelin. I really need that now that it is cold again here...
good for you.. yes cherish them while they are with you.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
22 Feb 13
Being strong is as important as being talented and smart, in my opinion so you are still great. As for companionship, I agree with you. Human beings are social creatures. We crave for attention, someone to give attention to, someone to be with, and basically just to be with us. To share each others' company. Personally, I don't think I will be able to make it in a day without having to talk to someone.
As for companionship, I agree with you. Human beings are social creatures. We crave for attention, someone to give attention to, someone to be with, and basically just to be with us. To share each others' company. Personally, I don't think I will be able to make it in a day without having to talk to someone. @Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
23 Feb 13
hahaha me, personal talk, I pass the day without it. but online yes, we often talk I talk to the family back home. thanks to the internet. I think it is more of human nature to talk to long for some attention.
@nitinnair89 (2900)
• India
22 Feb 13
Mavic, you look beautiful. Deazil and i are here to wish you good mornings and good nights. Lol. So were you thinking about the talk we had last night, that's why this post?
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
23 Feb 13
Am I? hmmmm yes I think I look beautiful hahahaha. thanks Nittin.well I cannot post here funny photos.. so I just thought my photo is funny enough to share.
Noooooooooooo... I wasn't thinking about that... come on. Marriage will happen if it si bound to happen
