Irresponsible boyfriend

March 4, 2013 9:31pm CST
We are in a relation since high school until College although we seldom meet each other we always go together one's in every three months. One thing I observed is he don't arrived on time and he has always the reason for being late. One day when I was alone I decided to go shopping on the nearest mall in our place. I was about to go to the Comfort room when I noticed a two person unmindful of the various people in the mall they doing something not good to the eye considering that the mall is open to the public and what they are doing is good only in the Lover's lane.
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8 responses
@patnopy (721)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
there are two types of bf/gf the showy types and not maybe your bf getting late for a good reason that true or maybe not but the important is he still made it to your meeting places to see you or be with you and also maybe he was shy types of person that don't want the public see it
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@raynejasper (2326)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
hi strong145. Am I made to understand that it was your boyfriend who's having a Public display of attention in the mall? If so, then you might as well analyze things and reconsider your relationship with him. Maybe he's not really serious about your relationship. It was a good thing for you to discover his "other business" this early. You are still young and you can always find a better partner in life.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
So are we talking about the late boyfriend or the couple in the public loo? About the boyfriend that you only get to see once in three months, his being late shows how little interest he has. If I was him, I would be very excited to see my girlfriend who I have not seen in a long time. Couples who do this thing in public have no self-respect and I pity them.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
5 Mar 13
There are couples who love to be together and love to show they love eachother esp. in public places. Excitment makes their relationship better. I am sorry to say but it's very hard for me to believe you have a relationship and only meet your boyfriend every three months just one time! If it comes to irresponsible I think your boyfriend is. This is not a relationship at all. He is wasting your time.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Some people could just not get hold of their emotions. Very unmindful of other's feelings. They can be sued for that.
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
He's not only irresponsible but also unworthy and not trusted. You need to avoid such kind of person to free yourself from being hurt.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Hi there, i do not understand if it was your boyfriend that you see in the mall or another person. I would suppose that it was a different person as you did not state it here. agree that you bf is irresponsible that he is always late. My bf too was like that, he did tried to come on time before, and he did, however as years go by he becomes more late all the time and i just know now that he is late because he is meeting someone else. hehehe ;P oh well there are just people who are showy and there are those that are not into public display of affection. I'd say the people you see are these types.
@kenshin2143 (1882)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
It really depends on the values instilled in us. Maybe for you, such an act is immoral and disgusting to look at but maybe for them, its just a way of expressing their love for each other. It depends on the intention of doing such act.