Love is back in the air!!!
By Cody Stewart
@CODYMAC (1356)
San Diego, California
March 30, 2013 6:44pm CST
Hello, to all of my myLot friends.
A while back, I started a discussion about my breakup with my fiancee from the Philippines.
Just a week ago, everything was great for me and then, BOOM!!! We talked and now we are back together. We wanted to keep things under the radar and not let a whole bunch of people know because we first wanted to work out some important things then see where it lead.
Well, here we are, engaged again. I am happy and a little worried at the same time. I feel like I need to get my act together again, (hehehe) and stop thinking about only myself but also the future with this wonderful woman.
I know that sounds selfish, but we broke up and I was focusing on my future and what I was going to do, but now all things changed and I have to rethink everything. I dont mind doing that, but I do think that I need some tips from some of my myLot friends about how to do things this time to keep the flame going, get a good job, and get a steady place to live...
Thanks for your suggestions and please dont be mean or rude, because I am really just looking for friendly help not attitude. Thanks to everyone. 
6 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
30 Mar 13
Great to hear, you 2 worked things out. Love works in funny ways. Good luck. Hope its forever this time.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
31 Mar 13
Right, Maria. I hope that it is this time too. She told me that she would never again remove "Engaged To Cody Stewart" from her status.
Hahaha, well, I know her and our one year anniversary just passed a few days ago...I know how she is and I know how I am, and really hope that this time it is for good.
Thanks for the response Maria. 
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
31 Mar 13
I only want to hear the wedding bells here. Nothing else. Got it??
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
31 Mar 13
Hi there, congratulations first of all.Its hard to get good partners these days so its great that you guys are back together.When a couple is in love adjustments happen automatically.Just keep making her feel special, that's what girls love and involves her more while making important decisions that would strengthen your relationship.Starting fresh can be a good idea too, just remember how you guys were when you started your relationship and do all that again, best wishes to both of you.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
1 Apr 13
Hello. Nice spinning top picture there. It reminds me of my life, spinning out of control! lol
She is very special to me and I really love the fact that she is always there even when we broke up. I will do everything for her that makes her and I happy.
I really thank every one of our friends for counseling us to get back together. They were there and I really love that!
Thanks for the response.
I really thank every one of our friends for counseling us to get back together. They were there and I really love that!
Thanks for the response. 
@peavey (16936)
• United States
31 Mar 13
I'm so glad to hear that, Cody! I will pray that things work very well and that both your dreams will come true.
The only suggestion I have is to apply yourself to making a good living and stay as steady as you can. The more you bounce around, the less stability you have.
Congratulations, by the way.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
1 Apr 13
Thanks for that peavey. You are a great voice of happiness and reality. I know that you are right, and by the way, you can friend her if you like...
She is always looking for more great Christian friends from all over the world.
God bless.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
Have a positive attitude towards everything. You should include her in all your plans and also let her help you make your plans and dreams come true. If you really want her to be with you for the rest of your life, then let her be part of you and in every decision that you make.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
1 Apr 13
I have included her as of last week, but the week before that I was thinking about how I will survive.
There has never been a time while we were together that I didnt think about both of our needs. She knows that and I really love helping her every chance I get. (I even helped her while we were apart.)
She will always be a part of all of my decisions, from the day we got together until this very second.
@greenthumb018 (595)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
Yes, I think that getting your acts together will make her happy. But don't forget to include her in all your plans. It's a bit hard to start a family without a permanent place to live or permanent job but if both of you will help each other and persevere, maybe life will turn out the way you planned it. You never know until you try. I hope that both of you continue to love each other and be strong in all the trials that you're about to face as engaged and eventually, married couple.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
1 Apr 13
I agree with everything you have said.
I really think that I have many things done that I would not have done if she was not in my life.
There is not a lazy bone in my body and I do not like to entertain the thought of just living off the state or anything like that. I am a hard worker and feel that there is never a time to be lazy.
Thanks for the response.
@donatello123 (326)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
It's good to hear that you and your girlfriend are now okay. I hope everything will be fine and I am proud of you that you realized something about yourself and you plan to change it. I believe that in a relationship, you should not always just think about yourself but you have to make decisions for the benefit of you two. So if you think too much about your future, think about the future of the both of you.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
1 Apr 13
I will, and have already done just that. Thought about both of our futures.
Thanks for the reply. :D
Thanks for the reply. :D