how can we say this is a good friend

Just by looking at a person’s face, we cannot say whether he is a good friend or bad friend. In order to understand whether one is good r bad, one will have to take the risk of making friendship with that person Friendship is sometimes like a rough sea where the tides are very high. Our interest and the friend’s interests will often clash. The really good friend will be with you even if the entire society casts you out, even when the whole community pokes finger at you and condemns you.

Only time and attitude can tell us if it's a good friend or not. Especially bad times together will prove that, since it's easy to be good friends if everything is going well.

There are five ways to know if your friend is a true good friend. First, your friend shares secrets with you. Meaning your friend knows that you are a trustworthy person. On the other hand, you also feel comfortable sharing your secrets with him/her. Second, your friend gives you good advice and you also feel comfortable giving him/her advice. Third, a true friend admits his/her faults and asks for forgiveness. Fourth, in times of problems, your friend sticks with you no matter what. Fifth, a true friend is someone you can trust. You can loan him/her your personal items without wondering if you'll ever see your things again.

I dont understand what you are asking/saying haha good friend?