Is there no Ugly woman in the world but Lazy one?

@tinayu (214)
China
April 22, 2013 3:35am CST
My sister-in-law is a saler in a clothes store.she is not very tall but has a trim figure,she is ordinary-looking but has very delicate skin.everyday before she goes out ,she spends almost one hour to make herself up , to tidy up her long black curly hair and to select clothes for herself.one hour later,a beautiful and fashion girl will emerge in front of you.she looks charming and becomes quite a different person.in contrast,i always stay at home,never make up,never go to social parties.i like to spend most of my time to work and play on the computer with my pajamas wearing.i have been this status for a long while.today morning, when i looked into the mirror,i was quite taken aback by my own image.is that me?i can't believe. it's just an ugly woman. is there no ugly woman but lazy?share your ideas.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
23 Apr 13
I'm sure there are some ugly women and lazy women out there, you just have to learn where to look for in our world. If you still trouble finding some of them, just come to my city, i can show you some, it is not a problem a all.
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@tinayu (214)
• China
23 Apr 13
hahah, it's a joke.you are humorous.your words inspire me that i am still a beautiful woman. thank you.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
It's neither about being ugly nor being lazy. It's about giving attention to yourself. The main reason why sadly husbands prefer a mistress over a wife is simply because the mistress puts time into her looks than a wife does. I know pretty much most of the people would say that I'm wrong, but deep down inside we all know it's true. The wife is pre-occupied with other things than herself while the mistress thinks of herself only. Is it wrong to not give yourself attention? Yes it is. You need to take care of your looks and your mind even if you're working at home. You need to make sure you are still "marketable" in your eyes and the eyes of your loved ones so that you will still feel the "worth". I think you should start taking care of yourself before it's too late. You don't need make up or fancy dresses. You just need to keep your face neat and free of lines by avoiding anger. Smile more and go out once in a while. My mom used to tell me to not wear pajamas nor those loose-fitting clothes when I'm not sleeping. Because when you wake up one day, nothing else would fit but those. Your body would grow bigger without you noticing because your usual clothes are loose. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
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@tinayu (214)
• China
23 Apr 13
thank you, you are a very kind person to tell me these things. you are right, i should pay attention to myself.my husband's generosity would be wore out by time.one day he would compare me with some beautiful women outside and think that i am an ugly woman.your words warn me,i will avoid it before it is too late.
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@youless (112140)
• Guangzhou, China
23 Apr 13
I agree that there is no ugly woman but lazy one. If a woman spends some time to pay attention to her skin, at least she shall look younger. And having a makeup will make a difference for a woman. Even if a famous Hollywood stars will look beautiful with a makeup. However, they become to be normal people if they don't wear makeup.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
Maybe it depends on how you rate yourself. But literally lazy is indeed ugly. No matter how pretty a woman is if she's literally lazy i might consider her ugly. Speaking of physical looks, some women looks pretty because of make up which can hide their imperfection- for me it's not a real beauty but an artificial. I still prefer a natural beauty, simple, no make up or any cosmetics. Maybe a slight powder to blush on and think lipstick would be fine.
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@tinayu (214)
• China
23 Apr 13
yes, i agree with you.i prefer a natural beauty.i have had few cosmetics except skincare products.in my situation, i need not to make up.but i think in other situations it is necessary to make up a little to show politeness.such as my sister-in-law.
22 Apr 13
She's a seller, so looking pretty is a must for her.We call this dress code.I mean when you want to sell something, you have to look good.Who will buy from someone who looks messy?But when it comes to home, people should feel comfortable at home.No need to wear make up 24/7, it's even unhealthy to your skin.Sometimes it takes so little to look fresh again.A tired face is never beautiful.Sleep well,drink enough water,eat fruits.Try wearing something simple, but nice at home.Smile at your reflection in the mirror,never curse it or say it's ugly.Happy people look prettier, believe me.Ugly women don't exist.I believe that.:)
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@tinayu (214)
• China
23 Apr 13
you are very very reasonable.you say what i think.thank you.
23 Apr 13
Yes, I guess celebrities??? ha ha since high earning high maintenance can afford to have a maid of there own and the work they're doing is just easy modelling, acting or just singing not using that much of their minds
@tinayu (214)
• China
23 Apr 13
i don't know how to reply you.even celebrities or entertainment stars must pay lots before they gain lots things.
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
Your sister in law goes out everyday and she needs to look good, while you don't. Maybe that is the reason why she fix herself. Well, you could also look good even if you are just staying at home. You take a bath in the morning and change to a more presentable housedress and put some powder on your face or a little make up before you sit down in front of the computer.
@tinayu (214)
• China
23 Apr 13
yes, i will make up and dress formally when i go out.but i would like to be casual at home.thank your for your advices, i will try.
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
Hmm. sometimes it just really depends on the beholder on how she see herself.
@tinayu (214)
• China
23 Apr 13
sorry, i don't know what do you want to express.:)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 13
Lazy will make any person looks ugly. If one not tidying herself up, even if she’s a pretty woman, she will loo messy and not that good to look up. Anything neat and tidy is beautiful. Although in my opinion, your sister in law have to look pretty in order to sell clothes. She has to wear fashionable clothes to look good in order to sell the clothes. But you also can wear some light make up and wear pretty and fashionable clothes in order to look good once in a while. That will make you more confident and happy. Since confident and happy people are more charming and good.
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
22 Apr 13
"beauty is in the eye of the beholder". while cosmetics and clothes can help us look more chic and fashionable, these are not really that important. your husband/BF might not like a woman who always wears make up so that is why he considers your simplicity beautiful and he fell in love with you. however, if you really want to change your style to improve your self esteem, then it wouldn't hurt if once in a while you wear make up and beautiful clothes when you go out. your sis in law goes out everyday and maybe her job demands that she looks made up and fashionable that is why she does this.
@tinayu (214)
• China
23 Apr 13
yes, you are right.my husband doesn't like women who wear too much make-up and dress seductively.he always says less is more and advise me not to make up.he loves me for me.but sometimes i dress up a little in some special days.my husband will surely marvels at my beauty and difference from before.