I have no time for you to think

United States
April 26, 2013 11:12am CST
This is what my boss just said to his wife. He asked her a question about something and then told her nevermind i told have the time for you to think about it. The things that come out of his month are so rude, i have never met someone in my life that is that mean to his wife. Thats actaully not that mean at all, yesterday he made her cry and thats not that bad either from what i see hear. I could never be with someone that treated me like the way he does towards his wife at all. I tell her all the time when we are here by ourselves that she is such a strong person.
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9 responses
• United States
26 Apr 13
That is really terrible. I once was in a relationship where he would talk to me like that, its verbal abuse. He also was physically abusive to me but honestly all of the verbal abuse was much more damaging because almost all of my physical injuries healed fast but it took years for the damage of all the verbal and emotional abuse to heal, in truth it hasn't all healed. She needs to tell him to either stop or she needs to leave him. NO ONE deserves to be treated that way and she needs to realize he is abusing her. HE needs to also realize he is abusing her. It needs to stop or she needs to get out before it damages her self esteem and self worth even more.
• United States
26 Apr 13
You are absolutely right that he is verbally abusing her and its rude. I have only been here at this j ob for three years and since ive been here hes been doing it so really who knows how long she has been taking his abusiveness.
@WakeUpKitty (8707)
• Netherlands
26 Apr 13
I guy working for me once said: you know what it is with you? You are a woman so you are not able to think in the right way! And this is said by a guy who can hardly write, read, come out of his words when he speaks... This woman choose this man, if she can't stand his comments she should show him! If not this is what she deserves.
• United States
26 Apr 13
I just dont get guys sometimes. I think its rude how they think and what some of them say. At least my boyfriend is nice and caring for me.
• United States
27 Apr 13
That is very rude indeed. Why bother asking the poor woman if he is not interested.
@succeednow (1636)
• Singapore
27 Apr 13
Hi lologirl, That was indeed very insensitive and downright rude of him to treat his wife or anyone else for that matter in this manner. As a rough guess I would say he appears egoistic, arrogant, self centred and above all impatient - all poor behavior which he must get rid of as soon as possible if he knows what is good for him. Pity his poor wife. Have a good day.
@cupkitties (6952)
• United States
26 Apr 13
Wow. What a sweet guy. Does he have a brother?
• Philippines
26 Apr 13
Hello lologirl, that is so rude, maybe it would have been better if he just didn't talk at all. most men are like that, probably annoyed when too busy with work and even say derogatory comments on women but probably because of high insecurity or envy because most of them can do better.it's still hard to believe but it takes men a lot to mature
@Raine38 (9027)
• United States
26 Apr 13
I had a boss who was also so rude. He likes yelling at people even though it's his own fault. And when I met his wife, I can't decide if I am surprised or I have been expecting that they are both the same. They think so highly of themselves and they really look down on people. I can't believe that there are really people who are already blessed and yet they still can't be nice to other people. Good thing I was transferred to a much better department.
• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Apr 13
That is really rude! He sounds like a complete jerk! Eventually she will hit her breaking point and she will not deal with it anymore... The time will come where it will happen. Everyone hits their breaking point at some time in their life, when hers comes that guy will be sorry! You can only treat someone that way for so long before they lose it.
@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
26 Apr 13
That is awful. It is sad that people can treat others that way. I know I would probably be out of that situation really fast. I couldn't imagine having to deal with that type of situation day in and day out.