What Should I Do?
October 4, 2013 2:39pm CST
I am in a relationship that is going nowhere. I want to give my guy a choice to sleep around as long as he is still mine in the end. I feel that I can satisfy him sometimes but most times I just don't feel like having sex at all. How should I tell him that its okay with me if he finds a side girl to sleep with?
• United States
7 Oct 13
Sounds like it's already been covered. You both have the freedom to do whatever each of you choose. I personally have no problem letting someone go ahead and make the choice to have other partners. Unless for some odd reason I actually wanted them to do this. I say let them have their adventures, but I will not keep them in my life in any way, for any reason. Get real with yourself, and handle this soon. I am a single male,and am not looking for a relationship. Perhaps this is why I have the opinion I have.
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
5 Oct 13
Umm, no. It's NOT okay for him to do that, just like it's not okay for YOU to do that. You & he are in your relationship, but not FOR-either of you OR -both of you; you're here to find 'the kingdom of God' and serve it. His sleeping-around might make him unavailable to you when you need his support. See, Psalm 128 says that a man's wife is like a vine, using him to stand steady as you grow upon him.