Me against you, you against me
@jmmhtan (2)
Quezon City, Philippines
October 10, 2013 7:18am CST
I'm at that point where I don't even care if people like me anymore. If you like me, cool. If you don't, okay.
People do not have the right to judge others. Even me myself should not judge. Because only God can judge me, you, and everyone else.Why look unto the wrong of others if you yourself can not do good? No one has the right to look at someone from head to foot and say "you're ugly". No one is perfect and no one will be perfect. Before you judge others, be sure you are perfect.
We can't avoid to judge but it shouldn't be too much that you'll make a person act different as he/she was.
If someone asks you to change, think about it.You should decide on your own. But remember, you should change for the better not for the worst. Just be careful who advice you to change. There are a lot of plastics in this world now. Even your friends CAN be plastic. (Yes that's in capital letters because it's the truth and it's an awakening). You have thousands of friends? That's nice. But let us just see in the end how many of them will stay and how many of them will go. What I am telling is that, if you change, there is no turning back.
Do not pretend to be someone. Just be you. It's nice to be loved for being who you are not for being somebody. As long as you are happy, they don't care. Just do what you want. Do what makes you happy because you only live once. You may encounter so called haters but ignore them. They are just insecure about you. They hate you because you are much awesome than they are. What they know is they drag you down but what will happen is the opposite of that.
I'm in a free country, I can do what I want. I can post anything just don't base my attitude from what you are reading. You know my name, not my story.
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@lovegengb (15)
• Lanzhou, China
11 Oct 13
No one is perfect and no one will be perfect. Before you judge others, be sure you are perfect.
I like this sentence! There is an old saying in china"Gold can't be pure and man can't be perfect".Before you judge others,please make youself perfect firstly.
You know my name, not my story.
Yes, that is right.Someone only know your external things including appearance, wealth,backgroud and so on,but who care your story?
So,just be youeself!
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@sunilmishra7756 (4272)
• Moradabad, India
10 Oct 13
There is nothing good or bad,but our thinking makes it so.
Thanks
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
12 Oct 13
This is difficult. A girl's recent actions hurt me deeply. I love her (mostly in the 'I love everybody'-sense, but a little bit in the kissy-face sense), and thought she loved me; but she turned from me and WENT HOME with some guy who bought her an expensive drink.
I may see her again in the bar where we met. And she may come up to me again---maybe with all the "lovin` on me" she had been doing the first two times we met there, maybe not. If she advances on me again, should I take that as an apology for 'ripping out my heart & stomping on it'? or should I swat her away like the instinct-driven insect that she had acted like before?
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@xiaohongxiaohong (341)
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11 Oct 13
I can feel you are kind of angry about someone else who don't respect you. These people always exist in our life, but we need to focus on the beautiful side, not them. Then they can't affect your life. Have a good time.
@loverboy28 (12)
• Baoding, China
12 Oct 13
Yeah right maybe somebody look down for her and now she is very angry for someone. Who is that? Just be calm and be real. If you have enemies try to love them. Though it is hard to love your enemy buy we should do it.
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@sunilmishra7756 (4272)
• Moradabad, India
11 Oct 13
Man is unpredictable.There is a great difference between his words and deeds. Only he is wise today whose follies are concealed. He who knows and knows he knows, he is wise, he should be followed.But we should think before we leap.
Thanks a lot.
@loverboy28 (12)
• Baoding, China
12 Oct 13
yes I really buy your idea. People really tend to judge people. It is not a good thing because just like what you said. Only God can judge. Who are we to judge other people? Are we God. No we do not have any right to do that. Just be yourself and if somebody commented for good so go for a change for the better and not for the worst.
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@treelife (7)
• United States
13 Oct 13
There are times when people just need to focus on what they have to do in life. That means let go of the accusations and hatreds against you. You are just hurting yourself. Give God all of your pains and worries. He will change your life. And also learn to forgive your enemies.
