distance

By lysa
Marikina, Philippines
October 25, 2013 11:01am CST
Sometimes you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they'll notice. If they don't, you know where you stand with them.
2 responses
@mythociate (13563)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
26 Oct 13
You're looking at it wrong, I think. Don't even worry about 'if people like you' (except maybe your parents, if you're a teenager/young-adult ). Just 'seek ye first the Kingdom of God'---which I think means 'just do what it is you know you are meant to do (using the talent that "the good LORD gave ya`"), and (if you get it "right") people will position themselves as close or as far-away as they SHOULD be.'
• Sumter, South Carolina
27 Oct 13
I see Uncle Doc view: however sometime you have to distance yourself, just for the purpose of self. There's absolutely nothing against doing that: yes, indeed as you will also see who notices your absence- but don't do it for malice, but for time for you only; for at the end of everyday, it's you who have to love you first, and again!
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• Sumter, South Carolina
27 Oct 13
@Uncle Doc J: I appreciate that. Just was expounding alil, keeping it real! I believe @Lsya will be good tho. It's all about supporting of positive hands....
@mythociate (13563)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
27 Oct 13
@juzjohn I agree (which is usually what 'LIKE'ing a response/post is usually saying---that you agree with the comment). I just don't know whether Lysa (@elieza) is saying 'she likes people, but they don't like her' or 'she HATES people & wants to stay away from them forever.' Because sometimes "if your standing with people is not good" means YOU have to change (even if you are right ... a lesson I'm learning with regard to my frustration at people continually parking right in 'my way' (at the end of a paved walkway from my apartment to the street') ... (i.e. I 'feel like' I would be right in taking a sledgehammer to the offensive vehicle---probably just to leave a dent; but I would be mortally afraid to do so, some people loving their vehicles more than human happiness )
@hotnicey (27)
• Ghana
26 Oct 13
I don't force myself on people. As you said, distance yourself from people who don't care especially those that hate you. Thanks