Please Somebody answer me! :)
@Eglomarzan (3)
Marikina, Philippines
February 19, 2014 9:01am CST
Everyday for me is a Mess. I always do something wrong, Something that really disgust others and even myself. I keep on asking myself, why am I like this? there comes a time that I Cry at night asking when will I change? But when i EVALUATE myself, the things that i really like to do and my priority. I am out of my own path. so I learned one thing as I feel like I've changed, everyday, I always evaluate myself what am I today, and yesterday, I try to improve and make it more better than before, things change for the better.
-For others that have the same feeling as I. I ask you to EVALUATE yourselves And change for the better you.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
22 Feb 14
@vincentzw You don't have to be Christian to read- & be helped by-the Bible
In fact, Christians read the Bible 'wrong' in order to justify themselves---they say 'the Bible teaches you how to live,' but sometimes their interpretation is wrong.
And Atheists study the Bible a lot more than Christians do. Christians are satisfied to go along with whatever church-leaders tell them it says, while Atheists (or Agnostics, kinda like me) won't believe them unless their Scripture 'snippets' come with "context" (who, to whom, what, when, where, how & sometimes why).
For instance, the famous passage John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever should believe in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." When you read that, it sounds like St. John is telling all the churches about Jesus (son of the Virgin Mary, fathered by God) & how He came to die on the cross to pay for our sins.
But if you look at the context, it's Jesus Himself telling a leader of the Jewish church how forgiving God is (during dinner at the Jewish leader's house). What He's TRULY saying is 'that God loves us so much that--if we obey His will--"our destinies are protected" (whether you think that means "we will go to Heaven" or whatever else).'
@vincentzw (4)
• China
20 Feb 14
i'm not a christian . i only believe in myself cause i can change nothing but myself !
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
22 Feb 14
Lose yourself. Choose to serve 'the Kingdom' (i.e. the greatest good that everyone will ultimately serve, whether they want to or not.)
@fyingfish (5)
• Shanghai, China
20 Feb 14
I think actually you are a pretty good person who has high self expectation.Evaluate yourselves is really a good way to keep brilliant. I used to ask myself what you got improved.But 2013 is a hard year for me , I am still cann't answer myself.This make me feel really low.
Change to the better you! 2014!
@RajBhar (4)
• Mumbai, India
20 Feb 14
Hi there,
I believe there is this negative energy coming out from your inner self thats directing everything around you. You need to control that energy and make it possitive and the only way to do this is doing meditation for 30 minutes everyday and everything will change for sure. For meditation sessions you can reply back to me for help.
God bless.
@Poofness (1)
• Bucharest, Romania
22 Feb 14
Hello there! I was like you, few years ago. It started with the fact I did not know what I wanted, as a person to be, what things I really like and what I dislike and so on. So first of all, you must clear this out as fast as you can. If it help you, you can simply write those things down. What would you like to do in future, what would you like to buy, what would you like to feel. If you are feeling peace inside you, there will be peace around you.
Another things is that when you'll try to figure those things out, some of the people you know, might leave you, might tell you that you are a freak, but do not panic, is let's say "normal" being the fact you are acually passing thru a bad situation. So is up to them if they want to be friends with you or not, but do not cry after them.
In my opinion, everything happens with a reason. If you clear your mind enough, at some point you'll see the reasons why is happening.
So heads up! Be brave and dont forget to smile!
@Unclepuss (9)
• Beijing, China
21 Feb 14
i want to give you some advice :you said you were not on your own path, actually many of us may sometimes got that confused. Consider if you have any trouble with your friendship, family or your workmates. If the answer is no ,your mess is nosense, don't waste your time. If it is yes ,then you must face it without escaping.
@ChaYanba (19)
• Shanghai, China
21 Feb 14
I think you are a impatient person.You should read some Inspirational book or movies.
@RyanViola (77)
• New York, New York
20 Feb 14
I know trying to improve is good but in your case please stop thinking that you are doing something wrong. Do that thing only which you want to do, which you like. Don't think that you are doing right or wrong just try to enjoy whatever you are doing, after then you will realize all things getting perfect and in a proper way. Just only change your thinking, not yourself. I know all thing would be fine, trust me!
@shaiz98 (1)
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
20 Feb 14
Keep believing in yourself.With confidence keep moving on.I also had this type of negative attitudes.Just be confident thats it.
@natashacupio (2)
• Cape Town, South Africa
21 Feb 14
it starts with loving yourself and accepting who you are, we are all unique so the one consolation is that there will never be another you, the original is always better than a copy!!!
