Rose Anne and me

@Pattitude (1287)
Newton, North Carolina
November 23, 2015 10:31pm CST
For those of you that have been following my posts about my school-hood best friend, Rose, (picture is of us at my mom's 88th birthday party this past August) know that she just got a diagnosis of lung cancer. I just found out that she is Stage 4 and it has metastasized (spread) to the brain. She is back on the vent. I only hope that she can hang on until I get paid so I can afford to drive up to Ohio (from NC) to see her. I hope she survives this, but I am not naive, and I do have health care experience.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
24 Nov 15
I can see that she's a beautiful girl . It's just so sad that a beautiful and young girl like her would soon be leaving this world. But i hope she will still live for many years .
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
25 Nov 15
Yes, it is sad. I wonder if she will still be around this time next year. I will have to wait and see.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
25 Nov 15
@Pattitude So how is she taking this truth that she will soon be leaving this world because of her sickness ?
@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
25 Nov 15
@SIMPLYD I have not been able to talk to her, she is on a ventilator. I will drive up there next week.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
26 Nov 15
Life is so unpredictable and in the end all we have is our faith.
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
1 Dec 15
I know, it is just so unfair.
@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
24 Nov 15
Sorry to hear that. Hope you'll get to see her and have good time with her very soon.
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
25 Nov 15
I'm afraid that the good times are probably over.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
26 Nov 15
It broke my heart to learn that this girl has terminal illness. I pray miracle will happen on her so she will not have to bid this world goodbye at that early age.
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
1 Dec 15
I am so broken hearted, too. Between my school work and my crying spurts, I just have not been going online. She was off the vent again, and is now back on. I found out a couple of days ago that the doctor told her husband she only has 3-6 months to live. I did not take that very well!
@allknowing (130292)
• India
24 Nov 15
You do have something to cope with specially when this is happening to your best friend.
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@allknowing (130292)
• India
24 Nov 15
@Pattitude It is not easy to face a situation when there is nothing much you can do and this is what you have to cope which can be very traumatic.
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
24 Nov 15
What is that?
• United States
24 Nov 15
This is so very sad, I am sorry to know it friend. I hope you can make it up to see her.
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
25 Nov 15
I was told they took her off the vent, but she did not last very long so they put her back on.
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@JudyEv (326581)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Nov 15
This is very sad. I hope you are able to visit her in the near future. It is always difficult to understand why these things have to happen.
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
25 Nov 15
I am going next week, when I get paid. I hope she can hang on that long.
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