Are you a giver or are you a taker
By Kevin
@kevin1877uk (36988)
November 28, 2015 2:24pm CST
Are you a giver or are you a taker
The world which we live in is a funny old world and so can be said for the people who live in this world.
In this world there are two kinds of people. there is the people give so much and don’t take very much in return. Then you get the people who always are willing to take and take and give very little back.
I, myself I’m a giver or so I believe. I often giving support to people, trying to help wherever I can. Often going out of my way into things for people then end up not doing my old work. I often get side tracked into help others because I have that feeling I need to help. There are some people do take advantage though, then I get upset for letting myself be used.
Which sort of person are you?
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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28 Nov 15
Yeah I know what you need, same here I have to sit back and look at it all.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
28 Nov 15
@kevin1877uk
I know it really hurts when you help someone and then find out you have been taken.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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29 Nov 15
@Marcyaz It sure does, it not nice, been down that road a few times.
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
28 Nov 15
I think I am both, I am fine with taking when I need but also give as much as I can
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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29 Nov 15
@Jessicalynnt It's going ok thanks, didn't know there was so much to learn lol
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
29 Nov 15
@kevin1877uk totally random, but how's work going?
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@gudheart (12659)
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29 Nov 15
@kevin1877uk If only there were more people like us then LOOL
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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16 Jan 16
You so much like me in many ways. Yeah got taken advantage of alright more then a few times.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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16 Jan 16
@T_gray I have that problem to too, Saying yes without thinking about it or not knowing I did say yes first place. I agree i come scream at times because it happens why to much.
I'm slowly learning to sometime so no but it's very rare i do. I guess i'm always too willing to please people and it backfires on me and end up getting used.
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
16 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk I can't say no. I have a huge problem with that. Even when I know they are using me. I still can't say no. Even though I am screaming no in my head
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
28 Nov 15
@kevin1877uk I am a giver. Always have been, always will be. Taking makes me uncomfortable.
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
28 Nov 15
I don't give excessively, nor do I take much. I definitely don't give to people who's abusing it.
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
29 Nov 15
@sugartoes Hence the saying, no good deeds went unpunished. it's basically directed at these people.
Give freely but wisely.
@EllaSpringtime (198)
• Israel
29 Nov 15
I think I am a giver, but I love getting advices from people. I don't care giving and not getting back nothing in sites like that or to people who need something. But in the love field I have learned it is a big mistake to give without no feedback. It's not bringing an open window to the other side to express himself and it makes him take things for granted. A only giving person must teach himself how to take.
